My mom died 4 months ago
My mom had pulmonary fibrosis. She was sick for a few years. It was funny how when my grandmother smoked, my mom would always say-I’m gonna die from second hand smoke. My mom never smoked. She died from lung disease. Ironic.I was fine at the funeral. Planning. Talking to everyone. I thought u handled it great. Now 4 months later, I’m a mess. Some days I’m perfectly fine, but others I can’t walk down the street without crying. I keep thinking that I haven’t talked to her in a while & I…See More
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Cecelia
I am so sorry for your loss.
One thing that helps me is looking forward to being reunited with those that have died.
The Bible speaks of this in several accounts, but my favorite is this one.
I love that the family experienced "great ecstasy." They had lost their precious 12 year old daughter in death. But Jesus reunited them with a resurrection.
I believe that one day we will all be reunited. We will experience that same "great ecstasy."
It doesn't take our pain away, but it does give us hope and something to look forward to.
So sorry that you lost your husband Cecelia. It's tough, especially with a little one to raise. You have come to the right place...everyone here on this site and on the Lost my Spouse group can relate to where you're at and what you're going through. It's the hardest experience I've gone through and will continue to go through. You never get over it, but you have your son and will see your husband in him. There isn't any right way to grieve and just go through it at your own pace and what feels right for you.