Cathy
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About my Loss:
I lost my best friend November 1st 2015 unexpectedly.. She had this cold on and off for about a year and she started getting so tired weak and confined to the house most of the time but one one Monday morning I saw she was having trouble breathing so I took her to the hospital and they admitted her cause she had fluid around her lungs And 2 days later they tapped her lung and drained the fluid and they had her on a vpap that pushes air into her lungs . About 3 days later the Drs came in and sat down and told us that my mama was in the last stages of lung cancer We had no idea but Even listening to them repeat what they said I was still in shock my stomach was in knots! Mama saw a lot of Drs and I asked few of them "why didn't the Drs she has seen over a year catch this ! But they just told Me it's because the certain kind of cancer it was it stays hidden till its to late ! Few days latter they finally got her were she could be on regular oxygen and I just told all the Drs I want my mama home and they finally released her on the day before Halloween it was on a Friday she was sitting on the porch with her tubing with her and smiling but on that Sunday am I was heading to mamas to help my Dady take care of her and I go in and she having trouble 😥 From the day she was admitted till she passed it was only 11 days when I lost my heart on November 1st my best friend ❤️😥👼 It was so sudden and now I have no one to talk to we did everything together and I feel lost I miss her so much my heart aches 😥I was by her side through everything and on her final hrs I knew I was loosing my mama I sang her favorite song to her amazing grace and I knew I had to tell her the hardest words that I'll ever say (it was ok that she can go ) I wisperd in her ear and within seconds she was gone 😥

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