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I am a 54 year old female unemployed but now have to go back to work.A mother of two grown daughters and four grandchildren.The younger daughter lost her dad 3 days after he walked her down the aisle to be married of a massive heart attack.
About my Loss:
My husband died of a massive heart attack suddenly at home.There were no signs.He passed on April 9,2013.i was home alone,He went to sleep in another room that night and passed that morning.i feel that he protected me cause he locked the room he was in so I would not find him.I had to call 911 cause he would not answer means they broke the door down and he was gone.I feel my grief is harder cause it was sudden.I think about him often we were married for 24 years but have been together for 30 years.
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At 11:01pm on June 15, 2013, Bonnie Jacobs said…

Thank you Alice. I know she is with God. I think God is with all of us too. I hope that I get to see her when it is my time.

 

At 6:47pm on June 15, 2013, Bonnie Jacobs said…

I pray everyday and ask God to keep her happy. I also ask for help dealing with it. It feels like my guts are being wrenched out of me.

At 3:22pm on June 15, 2013, Bonnie Jacobs said…

Sorry it has taken me so long to write back. I have been having a bad time lately and this day especially. I just want my daughter back. I want this all to be a nightmare and I will wake up and she will be here at home. I can't take it today. This is the worse day ever. I can't even look at her picture without having an anxiety attack. I keep thinking that it will be okay tomorrow but it won't. She is never coming back and I don't know how to live with that. Day by day sucks. All of the clichés in the world don't work for me right now. I miss my Sara and just want to hold her a tell her everything will be okay.

 

At 9:53pm on June 7, 2013, Dolly said…

did you ever reach K? I talked to her on the phone the other night.  Poor kid is pretty much alone I guess.  She seems very down.

At 12:37am on June 6, 2013, Bonnie Jacobs said…

Thank you Alice, for the gentle words. You remember, too, that we are all here for you as well. I don't know which is worse, knowing that your loved one is dying or dies suddenly. I think they are equally bad and that we all have our own crosses to bear. While Sara lingered it was torture. She was in pain and discomfort all of the time and watching that was unbearable. She is in heaven now and at peace as is your husband. I can't imagine the grief you are going through even though I am suffering too. I pray for you and everyone that is grieving.

 

 

At 10:03pm on June 4, 2013, Bonnie Jacobs said…

Thank you Alice. I appreciate the prayers and, yes, you are in mine. You all are.

At 7:56pm on June 4, 2013, Alice said…
To all those who are grieving a loss I will keep you in my prayers as you keep me in yours.Always remember to pay attention cause you never know when that love one will give you a sign that they are there.I was playing golf one day and this cardinal kept following me around the course and I know in my heart that my husband was there.
 
 
 

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