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I'm 16 years old, recently I've been devestated by the loss of a close family member.
About my Loss:
I lost my Grandfather on Monday, the 13th of February. I was arguing with him, and he collapsed. My Gran phoned an ambulance, and they told me to administer CPR. He went all purple, and then stopped breathing. I feel completely guilty and responsible, and that it was all my fault. He was supposed to be going in for a triple-heart-bypass soon, and wasn't supposed to be stressed, and now he's dead, and my Gran's by herself.

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At 12:54am on February 17, 2012, Lisa S. said…

also(if you care to read it),i wrote a blog you can find on my page called,"the giult of contributing to a loved ones death."its just all the thoughts I have sometimes about what I did or didnt do that I feel bad about.It's kind of depressing but I just had to get it out.goodnight:)

At 12:43am on February 17, 2012, Lisa S. said…

hi alan.sorry about your grampa.dont be too hard on yourself.I know how it is to feel giulty about it.I often argued with my sister before she was killed,and that makes me feel so bad.I also was sleepy and ignored the phone when my fiance called,just before he was killed.It's not your fault,and i'm sure your grampa knew you loved him.I think we as people often fight and argue,and thats normal,but we never expect that the person will suddenly die.please dont hold it against yourself.let me know if i can do anything to help you.~hugs~

 
 
 

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