My Dad was the ONLY one of our 'family' who Truly Cared and Came to Visit me in my 'Mother's Birth Province without Judgement, Expectations or Resentments Completely Opposite to my 'Mother' Demanded Perfection & Control. May God Forgive Her and her 'Father' and 'Mother' for what they 'Gave' to her which she in turn 'GAVE' to me in a Variety of Denied ABUSES she is still Capable of 'giving'. THANK GOD for the 12 Steps of Al-anon & A.A. which have Both Helped me to Understand & Begin to Let Go of My 'life' Long pAiN, Fear, Anger & Hurts which my 'brother' and 'sister' Do not 'care' to 'listen' to let alone be 'sensitive' towards me as their older and only brother. Thankyou Dad & Dorothy for Being My True Parents LoVe John