Pamela I'm so sorry for your loss.  I went through a very similiar situation in 2011 with my husband, but it was melanoma that had spread through his body without us knowing it.  He only lived 2 months after he showed any indication he was sick.  Cancer is so damn sneaky. 

Hello Pamela, just read your story...what a nightmare...so sad especially when you had embarked on such a lovely sounding move together...one day at a time..{{{[[[(((hugs)))]]]}}}

Thank you Pamela for all your kind words and encouragement. God bless, xxx