Kari Hurley

Female

Great Falls, MT

United States

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About Me:
I am a mother of 3 great kids, 2 girls and 1 son. I have a beautiful grand daughter and I am married
About my Loss:
I just lose my son who was 24 on 1/26/13. He was in prison and they think it was accidental drug overdose, but will not know until the autopsy comes back. The day I got the phone call was the day a big part of me died. He was my first born and only son. I love and miss him so much and the pain is often to much to handle. I have so much guilt and questions. I am tired of people saying it will be okay because you know what it won't. My son and I were very close, we always had been. I am the one that turned him in and in my eyes sent him to his death. People say I am here if you need anything just let me know and I just want to say there is nothing you can do to help me anymore. I miss him so much and my pain is so great that I am not sure I can do this without him

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  • jim siburt

    Hello kari, I am sorry to hear that you lost your son! I am not going to tell you it will get better. I will tell you that I am here if you ever need to talk. I invite you to join my network at
    http://victims.wall.fm/ and my facebook page http://facebook.com/victims.support/

    Concentrate on loving your daughters. Don't
    Blame yourself, I am sure you tried other options before you turned your son in.
    I hope tou find peace my friend take care

    Mar 11, 2013

  • jim siburt

    Your welcome and no I'm not sorry I responded, helping others in turn helps me.I think if uour son was into bad things, he may of ended up veing hurt even sooner out of prision. You did the right thing, you tried to help your son, again I'm sorry it happened but don't blame yourself. I can tell you loved your son abd I'm sure he knew deep down that you loved him too. He is in a better place now where there is no pain or suffering and he is looking down smileing at you and watching over you. I am sorry you had to dea l with so much in your life, They say god only gives you what you can handle He must of known you were strong and he gas cc a purpose for you. Maybe it is to help others who are going through what you have msybe it was for us to meet and your story to inspire all the members who are struggling too.

    Mar 12, 2013

  • Gina Stone

    Kari I am so very sorry for your loss, I feel the exact same way with my son, He really was my everything. It seems to unfair that he has died and that I am still here. It will be 6 months on the 31rst of this month. I use to come on here alot but I only check in every so often now. The comments are always wonderfully supportive, but like you I really need to be able to talk with others regarding his loss. If you would ever like to talk you are welcome to email me or Im on facebook as well gstone42@live.com. Im sending you a big hug and prayers your way. Gina

    Jul 25, 2013