Hi Cindy. I'm shocked after reading what happened to your sister and how she was treated by that awful man. Utterly dreadful. Thank goodness she had you for a sister x

Cindy,
I just lost my best friend my sister also to stage 4 ovarian cancer. I am amazed your aister made it over 14 years. My isister only made it 4 1/2. It is sad she was manipulated late in her steuggle by an unscrupulous man. My sister did not get 14 years but she did have a very kind and supportive partner. Perhaps you could focus on the fact of what a warrior she was she made it so far with such a dreadful disease and prognosis. My sister had an exhusband who we blamed for a lot of her problems. I got the opportunity to tell him off after she died. That felt pretty good.

If there is anything specific that you would want of your sister's to remember her by, please ask him.mhe can only say no. At least you asked. In my case, my sister left her boyfriend her house, which really mad my brother angry. She left him 150k but apparantly that was not enough.mshe left me the contents, which also made him upset. I asked him to let me know what he would like from the house, but he wanted things that she had specifically left to her friends, like certain artwork etc. it's been a real eye opener.

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MONTHS I HAD A GOOD DREAM ABOUT MY SISTER....NOT MY DAILY HORRIBLE FLASH BACKS/REPLAYS OF ALL THE DRAMA....SHE LOOKED HAPPY AND HEALTHY AND GAVE ME A BIG HUG AND FOR SOME REASON SHE SAID SHE WAS SORRY....THEN I WOKE UP BUT WHAT A WONDERFUL RELIEF. ...I LOVE AND MISS MY SISTER SO MUCH, THIS DREAM HELPING A LITTLE BIT.

I lost my younger sister about 7 weeks ago. Everything is so surreal.
The pain and sadness just overwhelm me and I just can't go on anymore. It was always only the two of us and now I have none.

How are you holding up? Every one assures me that I will get better as the days go by. Is it true? I feel worse and my pain is more intense now than 7 weeks ago.