Alice

Female

Matthews, NC

United States

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About Me:
I am a 54 year old female unemployed but now have to go back to work.A mother of two grown daughters and four grandchildren.The younger daughter lost her dad 3 days after he walked her down the aisle to be married of a massive heart attack.
About my Loss:
My husband died of a massive heart attack suddenly at home.There were no signs.He passed on April 9,2013.i was home alone,He went to sleep in another room that night and passed that morning.i feel that he protected me cause he locked the room he was in so I would not find him.I had to call 911 cause he would not answer means they broke the door down and he was gone.I feel my grief is harder cause it was sudden.I think about him often we were married for 24 years but have been together for 30 years.
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  • Alice

    To all those who are grieving a loss I will keep you in my prayers as you keep me in yours.Always remember to pay attention cause you never know when that love one will give you a sign that they are there.I was playing golf one day and this cardinal kept following me around the course and I know in my heart that my husband was there.

    Jun 4, 2013

  • Bonnie Jacobs

    Thank you Alice. I appreciate the prayers and, yes, you are in mine. You all are.

    Jun 4, 2013

  • Bonnie Jacobs

    Thank you Alice, for the gentle words. You remember, too, that we are all here for you as well. I don't know which is worse, knowing that your loved one is dying or dies suddenly. I think they are equally bad and that we all have our own crosses to bear. While Sara lingered it was torture. She was in pain and discomfort all of the time and watching that was unbearable. She is in heaven now and at peace as is your husband. I can't imagine the grief you are going through even though I am suffering too. I pray for you and everyone that is grieving.

     

     

    Jun 6, 2013

  • Dolly

    did you ever reach K? I talked to her on the phone the other night.  Poor kid is pretty much alone I guess.  She seems very down.

    Jun 7, 2013