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After Death Communication
~ Joyous Reunions With Deceased Loved Ones ~
©1995; by Bill Guggenheim & Judy Guggenheim
co-authors of Hello From Heaven! published by Bantam Books
Have you been contacted by a loved one who has died? After-death communication (ADC) is probably as old as mankind, but ours is the first complete research study of this field. These spiritual experiences are extremely common, and in many other parts of the world they are discussed openly and freely.
Between 1988 & 1995, we interviewed 2,000 people who live in all fifty American states and the ten Canadian provinces. Ranging in age from children to the elderly, they represent diverse social, educational, economic, occupational, and religious backgrounds. We conservatively estimate that at least 50 million Americans, or 20% of the population, have had one or more ADC experiences – and the actual numbers may be closer to double these figures!
We collected more than 3,300 firsthand accounts of ADCs from people who have been contacted by a deceased family member or friend. These are spontaneous and direct communications that may occur anytime and anywhere, but no third parties such as psychics, mediums, hypnotists, or devices of any kind are involved.
Based upon our research, the following are the twelve most frequent types of after-death communication people report having with their deceased loved ones:
Sensing A Presence: This is the most common form of contact. But many people discount these experiences, thinking, "Oh, I'm just imagining this." It's a distinct feeling that your loved one is nearby, even though he or she can't be seen or heard. Though most often felt during the days and weeks immediately after the death, you may sense his or her presence months and even years later.
Hearing A Voice: Some people state they hear an external voice, the same as when a living person is speaking to them. However, the majority of communications are by telepathy – you hear the voice of your relative or friend in your mind. When you have two-way communication, it is usually by telepathy. In fact, it's possible to have an entire conversation this way.
Feeling A Touch: You may feel your loved one touch you with his or her hand, or place an arm around your shoulders or back, for comfort and reassurance. You may feel a tap, a pat, a caress, a stroke, a kiss, or even a hug. These are all forms of affection, nurturing, and love.
Smelling A Fragrance: You may smell your relative's or friend's favorite cologne, after-shave lotion, or perfume. Other common aromas are: flowers (especially roses), bath powders, tobacco products, favorite foods, and his or her personal scent.
Visual Experiences: There are a wide variety of visual experiences, which we have divided into two broad categories: partial visual and full visual ADCs. Appearances range from "a transparent mist" to "absolutely solid" with many gradations in between. You may see only the head and shoulders of your relative or friend, or someone you love may make a full appearance to you, and you will see the entire body as well, which will appear completely solid. Some visual ADCs occur in the bedroom, next to or at the foot of the bed. Others may happen anywhere – indoors or outdoors – even in a car or aboard a plane. Typically he or she will be expressing love and well-being with a radiant smile. Loved ones virtually always appear healed and whole regardless of their cause of death. Verbal communication may take place, but not always.
Visions: You may see an image of a deceased loved one in a "picture" that is either two-dimensional and flat or three-dimensional like a hologram. It's like seeing a 35 mm slide or a movie suspended in the air. Visions are usually in radiant colors and may be seen externally with your eyes open or internally in your mind. Communication may occur, especially during meditation.
Twilight Experiences: These occur in the alpha state – as you're falling asleep, waking up, meditating, or praying. You may have any or all of the above types of experiences while you are in this state of consciousness.
ADC Experiences While Asleep: Sleep-state ADCs are much more vivid, intense, colorful, and real than dreams. They are very common. Both one-way and two-way communications are typical. You usually feel your loved one is with you in person – that you're having an actual visit together. These experiences are not jumbled, filled with symbols, or fragmented the way dreams are.
Sleep-state ADCs are similar to those that occur when you are wide awake. Your relative or friend can come to you more easily, however, when you are relaxed, open, and receptive, such as while you are in the alpha state or asleep.
Out-Of-Body ADCs: These may occur while you are asleep or in a meditative state. They are dramatic experiences during which you leave your body and often visit your loved one at the place or level where he or she exists. These are extremely vivid, intense, and real – some say, "more real than physical life." The environments usually contain beautiful flowers and butterflies, colorful bushes and trees, radiant lighting, and other lovely aspects of nature – and are filled with happiness, love, and joy.
Telephone Calls: These ADCs may occur during sleep or when you are wide awake. You will hear a phone ringing, and if you answer it, your loved one will give you a short message. Two-way conversations are possible. His or her voice will usually be clear but may seem far away. If you are awake, you will probably not hear a disconnect sound or a dial tone when the call is completed.
Physical Phenomena: People who are bereaved often report receiving a wide variety of physical signs from their deceased relative or friend, such as: lights or lamps blinking on and off; lights, radios, televisions, stereos, and mechanical objects being turned on; photographs, pictures, and various other items being turned over or moved; and a long list of "things that go bump in the night."
Symbolic ADCs: People frequently ask a Higher Power, the universe, or their deceased loved one for a sign that he or she still exists. Many receive such a sign, though it may take some time to arrive. Occasionally these signs are so subtle they may be missed, or they may be discounted as mere "coincidences." Common signs include: butterflies, rainbows, many species of birds and animals, flowers, and a variety of inanimate objects such as coins and pictures.
According to our research, the purpose of these visits and signs by those who have died is to offer comfort, reassurance, and hope to their parents, spouse, siblings, children, grandchildren, other family members, and friends. They want you to know they're still alive and that you'll be reunited with them when it's your time to leave this physical life on earth – and they'll be there to greet you when you make your transition. Their most frequent messages, expressed verbally or non-verbally, include:
"I'm okay ... I'm fine ... Everything is okay ... Don't worry about me ...
Don't grieve for me ... Please let me go ... I'm happy ... Everything will be all right ...
Go on with your life ... Please forgive ... Thank you ... I'll always be there for you ...
I'm watching over you ... I'll see you again ... I love you ... Good-bye ..."
You may be asked to give a message from your loved one to somebody else. We urge you to write down the message verbatim and to deliver it, if possible, because it may help the recipient far more than you realize.
Nearly all ADCs are positive, joyful, and uplifting encounters that reduce grief, provide lasting comfort and hope, and accelerate emotional and spiritual healing. We encourage you to trust your own experiences and to accept them as being real for you.
Unfortunately, some people react with fear when they have an ADC. This is usually because they are startled by the suddenness of the event, or they may have never heard of one happening to anybody else. Such people may assume they are "losing their mind and going crazy." And others find it difficult to reconcile after-death communications with their philosophical or religious beliefs.
Not all people are contacted by their deceased loved ones. We don't know for certain why some are and some aren't, but it seems that fear, anger, and prolonged heavy grief inhibit the possibility of having an ADC.
Based upon our research, we suggest the following: Ask for a sign that your relative or friend continues to exist. Pray for him or her and others who are affected by the death, including yourself. We recommend that you learn how to meditate, especially if you are currently bereaved or have unresolved grief. Meditation will enable you to relax and soften any fear or anger you may have. It will reduce your depression, improve your ability to eat and sleep, and facilitate your healing process. These deep relaxation exercises will also allow you to unfold your inner, intuitive senses. In fact, you may have an ADC experience while you are meditating.
Our research indicates that after-death communications are a natural and normal part of life. Therefore, we feel ADCs deserve the same public awareness and acceptance that near-death experiences (NDEs) have already received.
For most people, an after-death communication from a deceased family member or friend is valued as a sacred and profound experience that will be cherished for a lifetime. ADC experiences usually expand one's understanding of life and offer a deeper awareness of life after death. They consistently communicate an essential spiritual message: "Life and love are eternal."
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dream moon JO B
yep had tht 2 my dad wz a joker he wz i no his gon thngs go missng but thy turn up in a difrnt plase we put thngs its lk his say ha can u find it pens or silly stuff dispaer for days thn trun up a few days later
so i no wot u mean
Apr 25, 2014
dream moon JO B
its ok my mum always says its his way leti n us no his still hear
my dad use 2 say ths i m not going in sde thm gates till we r all 2 gether i belve it wear my dad is im not only 1 on hear it has jokers it has past thy will tell u sme thng will
tjrs a few tms wv felt him tap us on arm or thrs a nock at door wn i get thr thr is no 1 ther thy r not thn pics fal off wal put not smashet thy r still ok
i thng evn my cat lks up stairs i thng she can sea my dad 2 i thng pets feal it 2
Apr 25, 2014
Diana, Grief Recovery Coach
Jo B,
Thanks for sharing!
Apr 28, 2014
Dolly
last thursday we were up on the mountain at the house and had been playing music when I noticed a BIG bird fly by our front windows... CLOSE by.. and then I noticed a red crested Woodpecker had landed on a tree right out front of the open doors.... in all the years we have owned the land and lived in the house [over 37 years now] I have never SEEN a woodpecker.. HEARD a few, but never saw one... and this one was SO close and he took his time going up and down and around the tree so we got a really good look at him... then later another large bird flew by the doors... he didn't land tho so I'm not sure if he was a hawk or an eagle or maybe even an owl... he was BIG tho.... I think somehow these amazing sightings are telling me that Brandon is still around in some ways... maybe God sends these creatures, maybe somehow Brandon can send them or come with them or something... I don't know, but I do know I have never seen these things until this year following Brandon's death.. the mama bear AND three cubs right at the top of our driveway by the back door, the scarlet tanager and his mate... NOT hidden up high in the trees which is the ONLY place I've ever seen them before, and THEN only a few times... but THIS time on the ground right in front of our front doors, and they stayed there for awhile taking turns looking for bugs while the other one watched !! the owl on the tree out front... the deer standing and listening to our music, and only going back to eating when we stopped playing, and then listening again.. the lone dolphin that seemed to be waving goodbye days after Brandon died at the beach.... a dolphin and a baby had been by the last day we ever took Brandon in the sea to ride the waves last year... then after he died, just the one adult dolphin...she seemed sad somehow, and without her baby.... that and the two fire rainbows I saw this past year... never even HEARD of them before seeing one over our house... and the second one seemed to lead us home from the mountain one day.... all these amazing things can't just be chance can they?
Apr 28, 2014
dream moon JO B
its ok diana i no nw iv had so mush a d c on ballons othr stuff as well ballons thng a frind told me its defnky my dad coz it s hapend 2 mny tims it has
1 thng it dont go mising is meds but sily stuff lk pens or pens go missng rtn up later or glasses cse thy go missng trn up in a difrnt plase i o i can be lax a dazy on stuff foget wear i put stuff but ths i no its not me
keys seam 2 go msing a lot as well i try 2 kp my keys in my hnd bag so i dont loze thm its wear i kp my camras in my bag my digi camra en my mini carmcorda 1 it has clips on i no iv posted a few on hear all u hear is me bhnd a carma coz of c o p d wish i cnt hlp
evn sm of fots iv tk iv notse a orb nw again
Apr 29, 2014
dream moon JO B
Apr 29, 2014
dream moon JO B
bean fealing low 2 day dont why i do i dpont knd of reson u cud say my dad died 3.3.2012 on a sataday he did 2 fay is 3.5.2015 but 2 day is a sataday mby its why i feal low dont no no beam ot as well tryed 2 be brav bt bk he teras r bk on off tryn 2 kp it in prvit i am but its so hrd it is
i tk ths pic othr day in sky it sun or a bit of a orb as well not sre
May 3, 2014
dream moon JO B
May 3, 2014
Violet R Schulert Endres
I have conversations with him, I feel him around me.. i "hear " him in my head..I know he loves me i tell him i love him..we will be together a gain.
May 3, 2014
Natalia
I lost a dear nephew 7 months ago. He was like a son to me and we had a very special connection. His death was a shock to us...he was only 33 years young. I had a beautiful dream with him just last night. It was very vivid. I hugged him and told him that I loved him very much, and that he was like a son to me....I can still feel the hug...It was wonderful...I relayed the dream to his Mom, my sister...and we both started to cry. It was so emotional, but in a good way. :)
May 4, 2014
gramaokie
Natalia: I've had those kind of dreams. My grandma has been gone 25 years. A year or so ago I dreamed I was with her at her home. We talked just like the "good ole days" When I woke up I felt as if I'd really had an actual visit with her. It's wonderful! Some of my family understands, but others, especially my mother, just look at me in disbelief. I know that these experiences aren't just coincidental. DREAM ON!!
May 4, 2014
dream moon JO B
iv had thm dreams 2 nataliea i o its lk we liv 2 lvs we do 1 wn we a lvnin 1 wn we sleep it dose
thy feal so real thy o
May 5, 2014
Dolly
I wish I could dream of Brandon... or see him or hear him or feel him ...now its just seeing the birds around mostly...
May 6, 2014
dream moon JO B
dont no ifs its a sine or not intercosing bean off/on ketel jump on by it slf othr stuff lk i saed befre loved 1s playng pranks on us lk glases cses go mising or money gose misng thn trns up in a difrnt plase we lst saw it
bst bit iswen fotos fall off a wall th dont evn brke thy dont
maby its birds givng u a sine dolly maby birds r letng u no branden is ok
i no my mums had a lot a sines frm birds not best sine its not just bird poo on all of windows on house wish is not grt its not
i no if my dad had bean hear he wud of saed sh@t f@r l@@@k he wud of i wish we wear all on hear for beter thngs instead of death wish is so sad it is
i no dolly id u tk pics u mite catch a orb or a orb shadow mite be a sine frm brandonot othr loved 1s as well
sorrry if im gong on 2 mush
May 9, 2014
Nicholle
One of the hardest parts of grieving for me is the fact that I am quite connected to the Other Side. I am very clairaudient and clairsentient, and I feel very confused about how I can be grieving so desperately when I can hear and feel them here. Anyway, my mom does something pretty amazing for me.
Her thing with the grandkids was to print out coloring pages for them, especially before we went to the cabin ( a few hours away) or to Arkansas (10 hours). She passed in September and we made the decision to go to Arkansas for Thanksgiving since it had been a couple of years since going (due to mom's illness). A few days before we left, coloring pages started printing, all on their own. It didnt occur to me at first what was happening. I tried to find where they were printing from on the computer, but couldn't, of course. I joked that mom did it.
Well, pages did print on Thanksgiving too. Christmas started getting closer, and I EXPECTED pages to print for the kids, and guess what? They did. Of course they did.
I suppose that it would be easy enough to say that maybe someone somehow accidentally (or not) is using my wi fi to print pages they will never get, right? That thought occurred to me also, but now I know for sure it's my mommy.
Her birthday is January 27th, and pages printed- and I was not surprised. It reassured me that it IS mom saying hi on important days.
One morning I woke up from a terrible dream. I think bad dreams about people who have passed are just so unfair, aren't they? In my dream I was reliving the pain she had a week before she passed. She'd been rolling around in bed, tiny and bald, in so much pain and nothing was helping her. It took so much medicine to help her. I have never been more distraught on the inside. To actually be begging God to take someone away because seeing them hurt is more painful than the idea of them passing is just an impossible place to be. In my dream, I was there again. It was torture. I woke up completely devastated and immediately started begging my mom, "Please mom, please, I know you are better, please, this hurts so bad, I can't believe you went through that please mom, please....please show me you are okay." and at 5am the printer started printing. RIGHT THEN. Isn't that the most wonderful thing? I cried tears of joy and woke up my husband to share it with him.
She is also so loving and caring to send pages other important times. When we got home from Cullen's dad's house the day he passed away we sat in the driveway talking for a very long time. I asked him, "Do you think there are pages waiting for us to let us know your dad got home okay?" He said probably. And there was.
The morning of Mike's funeral, more pages. Earlier last week when I was having one of the hardest days ever there were pages printing. I am so grateful, so grateful. It brings me tears of joy and gratitude that she shows me. Someday I will not need it like I do now, but for now, I have thankfulness in my heart.
May 12, 2014
Dolly
THANKS nicholle.... it helps me to know that others get 'signs' even if I don't... I did at first, but lately its mostly strange appearances of birds around the mountain house... they've always been there but I've never seen them up close and personal like since my Brandon died... no more lights turning on though, and no more guitars playing by themselves.... I get the feeling Brandon knows I know he's with God and is doing great... I HOPE that anyway.... in any case, I can't get him back here and he was suffering here too, so I couldn't wish him back even if it was possible...
May 12, 2014
dream moon JO B
u cud say i am 2 nicholle sort of conect 2 ad c aftr lfie i am
i no nw if utk pics u can sm tmes catch a orb on th lk a angel lking 1 u can lk silver or any color 1 u can
iv had tht asw well on my printer saner 2 stared on its own printin stuff outt wish wud not print 1st tm rond
u shud try ballons doly for brandon let thm go 1s iv let go hav al burst or wace in id air wish can creap a lot of peple ou it can
i no my internet consions bean krazy not on but my w i f hub is on but internt bean krazy or my dads playng a prank on me
sorrry if i satng wong krzy thngs its juts bean 1 of thm days it has
May 12, 2014
dream moon JO B
few of ths pics i tk 2 day sm havorns on thm
May 18, 2014
dream moon JO B
i mt orns bloody arm plyng up
May 18, 2014
dream moon JO B
May 26, 2014
dream moon JO B
May 26, 2014
Dolly
two more things have happened that are unusual for sure... Thursday [another thursday] when I was at my computer I glanced down and saw a ball point pen next to my keyboard.. I don't remember ever seeing that pen before.. ANYWHERE... It said 'first things first' and 'one day at a time' and 'let go and let God' and 'live and let live' , 'easy does it' and part of the serenity prayer 'and the wisdom to know the difference'.... so where did that come from? I don't even know anyone who goes to meetings or anything.... and also yesterday when we got home from the mountain the lights on Brandon's bed had changed patterns... this is done by pushing a tiny button on the controller that's attached to the railing at the head of his bed and I can see no way that it could have been accidently tripped. For months it has been on a steady pattern, but yesterday it was switching from one pattern of colors to another... We've left the lights on in his room since he died, 24/7, to remind us of him and the beautiful light of his spirit].. right after he died, strange things started happening with lights going on and off by themselves, but it had stopped happening months ago... but now again.... I so hope it really is Brandon saying hello and not to worry.... nothing can take your place baby, and nobody, and we all long for the day we will be together again, God willing.....
May 31, 2014
dream moon JO B
iv had a difrnt xpren 2 day dolly th wz a sea gull on wall lkng in window thr wz it wz on wall fpr 5 mins but it wz a big sea gull u cud sea its eyes it wz starn rht thur front room window it wz
sad tng wz i idnt hav my camra on me i wish i had fr ths 1
May 31, 2014
Dolly
why is it the BIRDS so often are coming to us? Its as if they are flying with the angels... and MAYBE your dad and my Brandon are flying WITH them...
May 31, 2014
Violet R Schulert Endres
I was recently diagnososesd with a fatal deseaesse......Dan has been making contact more often. Im grateful. this is scarey.
Jun 1, 2014
Dolly
oh my Violet... how awful... I'm so sorry... are they sure?
Jun 1, 2014
Violet R Schulert Endres
oh yes..were sure..Ive got a yr or 3..I think about 1/2 that.. I know its hard to hear Im sorry-
ive mostly adjusted to the idea.. as I see it Im just joining Dan .. hes ok with that -me too...the process is hard.. is there anysupport group for the dieing..not the left behind..just the dieing...anybody know?
Jun 1, 2014
dream moon JO B
im so sorry violet
dolly i thng u r rht abot brds i no thy say birds lk lk angels wen thy hav wings open thy do
i got a eml off foto buket 2 day i did i gt ths pics i did
if i get any mre i wil let u no
Jun 1, 2014
Dolly
on the way home from the mountain on Monday this week we saw the tiniest fawn laying in the middle of the road... we stopped and spotted the mom in the woods nearby so we didn't touch the fawn... it looked SO much like the little fawn I bought last Christmas to put on Brandon's little corner table where all his pictures and candles and flowers are... where he used to sit in his wheelchair to be tube fed his meals... its like a living copy of the little fawn I bought because its look of gentleness and innocence reminded me so much of my Brandon... and there it was in the road.... I HAVE to start bringing my camera everywhere with me... how I wish I could have taken a picture of that tiny deer... and so many other things that have appeared since Brandon died.... I wonder if things will keep showing up if I DO carry a camera.....
Jun 3, 2014
Dolly
Violet.... do you have people to help you through this illness?
Jun 3, 2014
Violet R Schulert Endres
yes and maybe... I have friends trying to move to be near me and help me.. have alot of friends few able to stay with me
Jun 3, 2014
dream moon JO B
it seams 2 hapen dolly wn we dont hav camras on us as well
evn mini vid camras as well 2 rec crd thm
or batrys in carma seam 2 die wen we nead 2 ctch thm
Jun 4, 2014
Nicholle
My dad, who has never been religious or even spiritual until faced with watching my mom get her butt handed to her by cancer for 22 months straight until she passed, is blossoming and I love seeing it. He was telling me that the other night he was out in his backyard having a little bonfire by himself, scratching a scratch off ticket....he got up from the chair, just an old aluminum back yard folding chair, and it was rocking. But it never stopped. No wind, no nothing, just the chair rocking back and forth for minutes. The fact that he noticed this is huge, and the fact that he is OPEN to it being mom is huge also. :)
Jun 5, 2014
dream moon JO B
nicole my dad us 2 play prnks on me mum wn he wz alve but sm tms we can feal a tap on sholder thn we trn arnd no 1 is thr he ys 2 do th 2 us wen he wz alv e he did or nock on tble mkin us blev thr is s 1 at door i thn he stiill plyng pranks frm heven abuv 2 let us no his still hear i thng all our loved 1s do it 2 us
i got a eml off foto buket my dad new i luv fotogry or pics i thn my dad is send me pics thru foto buket
Jun 5, 2014
dream moon JO B
2 day wn i wz out i saw thes sea gulls flyng weid so i tryed 2 get my cmra out but by tm i got it out thyf lew i difrtn way so i cud not get thm
dolly i thgn u ar rht abot biwds tryng 2 conect 2 us brandon my dad
even loved 1s playng pranks on us still evn in death is still playng pranks on us
Jun 6, 2014
Dolly
I forgot to tell you all about the tree outside my little mountain house... its a small maple my husband says [he thinks]. It was warm enough to open the front doors while we played music, and all of a sudden I caught movement out of the corner of my eye during one of our songs we were playing.. it was a lively tune, but I can't remember which one it was.. anyway, I looked out the doors and down in the field where the deer go to eat and watch us play there stood the little tree, but it was DANCING !! I mean it was swirling and dipping gracefully, moving sections of branches in a sort of wave pattern and then switching to a swaying or just a movement of all the limbs together up and down or side to side... I never saw anything like it before that I can remember.... and the most amazing part is none of the trees around the edge of the clearing seemed to be moving at ALL... as if it was just this one tree 'dancing' to the music.... this happened off and on for about an hour and sometimes a few nearby trees would wave a branch or two, but mostly it was just this one little tree just swaying and bouncing and waving in the wind or whatever it was that made it move... angel wings? who knows... but it was so beautiful.... the clearing was so bright with golden sunlight, surrounded by the deep shadowy green of the forest, and this one little tree..... such beauty.... I hope Brandon had something to do with it.... and/or God... it just was too beautiful and unusual to just be an ordinary breeze..... again where was my camera?? I think we may not be supposed to record these little miracles maybe...
Jun 16, 2014
Dolly
Part of father's day we spent playing music because Brandon LIVED for music and LOVED to hear us play [he's the ONLY one that does I think, but that's OK...did you see I said "DOES" not "DID"?? ... ] Well as we got started, we were trying to get my piano working too... its an old Korg but still sounds nice... we were starting a song when all of a sudden we realized we were playing in two different keys... all of our instruments we were playing yesterday are electronic so are SUPPOSED to return to A440 when turned off and be on key when turned on again... BUT... BOTH my husband's horn AND my piano were in TRANSPOSE mode when turned on.... this is NOT supposed to be... so we felt like maybe "someone" was letting us know somehow that he was there with us too..... anyway we finally figured out what was going on and when we turned our instruments off and back on they went obediently to A440 and we had a wonderful session.... I only wish my son Bo would like our music, but mostly he just yells at us when we play... oh well.... as everyone else I so badly missed my own dad yesterday, and I know my husband was aching for his 'baby boy' as much as I was.... but at least we felt like on some level we shared the day with him wherever he is.... one day we will ALL be together... I HAVE to believe that or I'd just give up I think.... its so hard...
Jun 16, 2014
dream moon JO B
dolly fathers day i let ballons off for my dad 1 ths thng in mornin it wz tht 1 popet thn later 2 mre popet iv never non so many ballons 2 pop iv let ballons off sisne 2012 thy hav all popet or moved or popet or popet in mid air
i luv yore dansing tree i do
its funny wm songs is palyed our loved 1s loved play on rado thn weid thngs stard going on thy do
my dad loved balled he did but evry noe again weid stuff happens lk a nock at door u go thr no 1 is thr my dad us 2 nok under tble so we wud anser dooor or use hs molbil sell fone 2 prank call us he did
Jun 16, 2014
dream moon JO B
2 day ketle turned it slf on at 10am it did
thn we hav had a fly its bean anying us all day evry tm we try 2 hit hit it it flys away thn it starts anying us again we try 2 hit but it still flys away it dose
Jun 22, 2014
Anita K Ryder
My son died on a Friday night in his walk in closet. The next Friday and every Friday afterwards, the dog would go sleep inn his closet for that night. For months after it happened, the dog was scared to death, shaking all the time, hiding in corners, behind the toilet. When he would come to bed with me, he would be so shaky and hide his face in the corner and not look around. This went on for months until I had to move for the dog;s sake. He just was scared to death there. He went through a few years depression also.
Jun 24, 2014
dream moon JO B
sorry for yore loss anita
thy say pets feal it n2 as well my cat still lks up stairs i sm tmes thng she can sea my dad i do
i no i sond lk i am a nut kase i do
its nean 2 yrs sisne he past but she still lks up stairs she d
Jun 24, 2014
Dolly
WOW Nicole.. I just read your post about your dad and the rocking chair... isn't it wonderful when these things happen? It seems like somehow the two 'worlds' intersect for a few moments and we are truly together again, whether or not we can SEE the person or hear them or feel THEM, the EVIDENCE of them being there is amazing...
I know many think its not true and its bad spirits trying to trick us, but I'm hoping its really our loved ones through the mercy of God letting us know they're still there on some level we can't see or touch or feel or hear... even though some say they do see or hear or feel it.... I think I did feel my son's strong hands on my shoulders [even though in life he couldn't have done that due to his disability] and my cousin's arms around me cradling me from behind... but I could be wrong... I hope I'm NOT wrong though...
Jun 24, 2014
dream moon JO B
2 day i wnt in 2 a room i saw my dad sitng in a seat as clear as day or it ht i saw him im lk dad is tht u
Aug 6, 2014
dream moon JO B
bean lking it sm old fotos so i cn put on y use b wot u call it for digel foto fram i fnd sm halwean 1s of lst yr
i dress up so wn kids cm 2 dor i can giv thm a treat lk a big i am
i jst ntse ths m weid orb or so
iv only juts notce orbs oe so on
Aug 26, 2014
Kristine Rosendale
I found this information very interesting. My aunt told me about an experience she had. When I read this is was exactly like what she said. Since Brandon passed the lights in bathrooms flicker. No matter which bathroom or whose house i'm at this happens. I know its him I feel him. It doesn't frighten me it brings me peace. I pray that God will send him to me in a dream I would love to touch him one last time and let him know how much I love and miss him.
Sep 9, 2014
Dolly
My Brandon also seems to fiddle with lights and other electronic things... more at first, but still from time to time .. at first it was just amazing and so assuring to me.. now it seems more like a quick 'Hi mom' as he is on the run off doing whatever one does in heaven... I too would SO love to see him again, but don't feel I can ASK God for that... I do hope for it though and would welcome it totally... I did once feel as if he had his hands on my shoulders and was behind me... it was a steady pressure on both shoulders that I became aware of gradually as I was playing a song on my autoharp... It reminded me of the picture we made of him with a new body and angel wings... a new strong able body like one would expect to have in heaven if we do have bodies in heaven... all those technicalities about heaven I just don't understand ... I know the Bible says this and that but usually it just confuses me more to try to understand what the Bible is saying about heaven... one place says the dead sleep, and one place says to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord... so unless the Lord is sleeping too?? I don't get it... I just don't get those seeming discrepancies ... I always love to hear of other's experiences Kristine... it makes me feel more confident that what has happened and hopefully will continue to happen are really signs from heaven that mean my boy is still alive there, and is MORE than fine.... losing my son has been the most devastating thing ever to happen to me... I will never be the same... I so want to see him and hold him again... LOVE YOU SWEET BRANDON!!
Sep 10, 2014
dream moon JO B
on hear dolly its weid hw we get a d c difrent ways songs or lites on off or so on stuf bean mved or so
its evn spooky if we tk a pic wn we get orbs on or lk sprit angel orbs it is
or loved 1s orbs
jo
Sep 10, 2014
dream moon JO B
2 day i fond a foto album o a seat not sean it for ages a lot of famly it sts on fotoos hav died thy wear all happy 1s thy wear 1s wear we wear ats1s party on my dads sde of famley wear thy hav bear wine so on thm
i dont no if its a sine or not
any 1 else fond a foto album lk it
Sep 14, 2014
dream moon JO B
i dont no if its a sine or not
2 i saed i wish i cud sea my dad anti so on i fnd a dvd not mrkt after i juts sad wot i sead my anti popet up on it thn my dad s voise popet up on as well
tears in my eyes starded it felt so sad but happy 2 sea thm on a hm vid on dvd only t i sea thm is in dreams
Sep 21, 2014
dream moon JO B
u wud thng it wz a person
Sep 30, 2014