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Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on July 30, 2014 at 3:09pm

i feal sad bit margaret  i do after my dad died in 2012 3 . 3 iv had loss ever sinse iv had lst 1 wz 3 wka go

i feal so sad coz m anti died she wz sush a grt peersn she wz colorful carketer she wud say funny stuff mk evry laff my dads death kill me evry day it doise it  hrts my mum as well sisne my dad died 

Permalink Reply by David Mc Mahon on July 30, 2014 at 3:12pm

Hi Magaret,

There has been alot of loss in your life of lately over the past few years that can be quite overwhelming it seems at times for you. I can relate to this as I have also lost 3 members in my family since 2011. Each death is very hard and each griefing stage is worsened when someone else passes. I hope that these dark days pass for you.. I have been on prozac for the past 2 months to help me cope with my depression and slowly it has helped. I dont know if you are on any medication at minute?

Permalink Reply by charles daley on July 30, 2014 at 5:51pm

Hi Margaret i'm really sorry for your loss. i know what you are going though i lost my wife 4 years ago this coming monday and i lost my mom 5  months this coming monday while i getting to the point where i was okay with my wife passing but with my mom passing i'm back to square one. right now i'm really angry not for them passing on i'm angry at my self for not doing enough to save them or prolong their live's  people have told me it wasn't your fauilt but i don't look at that way as  their caregiver  i should of did more what is killing me watching my wife and mom passing on. there are times with me i want to end it but i can't do that the worst part of the whole thing is this augest is the month they died sept is my wife's birthday oct is our wedding  and the hoilday's i have nobody to talk to about this family have their own issues they are dealing with so talking to them is not a option. but i'm the type of person that keeps everything inside and that is going to kill me the way i feel is this i should of did more and the deaths is on me i know they forgive me and i know they are in heaven but even knowing that i can't forgive myself

Permalink Reply by Kim Cady on December 10, 2014 at 12:35pm

I am the same way... and understand. Lost my family - husband and all four years ago. Stay strong... and know you are not alone.

Permalink Reply by charles daley on December 10, 2014 at 12:47pm

hi kim i'm so sorry  kim i have so so much stress that i feel i have to let it out and not in a good way i feel my to blame for my wife's and my death not only a husband an d a son but as a caregiver and with the family fighting over something stupid i don't need this on top of grieving and my other issues lately i have thought about ending  this but i can't do that