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Permalink Reply by anastasia watson on August 13, 2010 at 10:22pm

I sooooo relate to everything you say about missing her.

Permalink Reply by Rachel Lynn Schuler on February 13, 2011 at 10:19pm

i miss my mom too, and just as you, I would talk with her every day, she would give me advice, and we just were so close....its so hard not to pick up the phone anymore....she was christian....she taught me alot....boy i miss her....these are the times you wish you had second chances

Permalink Reply by Rachel Lynn Schuler on February 13, 2011 at 10:20pm

at the end, she wasnt with it....I hope she knew I was with her....I think she did....I'm glad I was there for her....no matter what her condition....I lost both parents to cancer, almost the same situation, so talk about hard....

Permalink Reply by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 12, 2011 at 5:31pm

its hard when you miss a person so much and they are such a part of you....I cant think about my mom too much, we were so close that the pain runs too deep, and she wants me to be ok....but boy do I love her....I never loved another person in my life as I loved her, especially the last couple of years we really bonded....I love you mom, and I know you are ok, and I will be too :)....she WAS my best friend....its really hard

Permalink Reply by Robin Williams on June 15, 2011 at 7:10pm

Wow- you have really hit the nail on the head....that's how it was w/ my Moma.  I went to her for everything and she always had the best advise.  She was my moma, best friend, mentor, confidant.....the list could go on forever.  My moma also taught me about God.  I know that if I did not have that wisdom I would be even more lost than I am now.  It sounds like your mom was such a blessing to you.  I also loved my moma more than words can say and sometimes wonder how I am going to make it through this difficult time w/out my rock and anchor here on earth.  God Bless You!!! 

Permalink Reply by Monique Hunsley on June 15, 2011 at 10:11pm

I want my mom back!  Yesterday marked the 2 month anniversary of her death and again I relived her last moments holding her hand (that turned black in mine) as she fought to breath and then took her last breath.  I know she's gone but it's not fair.. she was only 63 and I still need her.  She spent the last 10 years of her life caring for her parents and didn't get to travel much or do much because she always had to look after her parents.  Then she got sick had to put her mother in to a home and was gone a year later.  What happened to retiring and enjoying things with my dad, being able to travel.. she won't even get to see her first great grand baby that is due in October of this year.  I'm sad and angry all at the same time but most of all I just miss her so much.  I love you Mommy

Permalink Reply by Laura Krause on August 2, 2011 at 12:04am

I want my mom back! I find myself saying that over n over, especially when Im in the car alone, I'll cry it, scream it, whisper it, I want my mom back! . My mom was only 73, she just retired 3 1/2 years ago. She was the Library Director in the small town where we live. She never got to do the things she talked about doing once she was retired. Im also angry and sad. I miss her every minute of every hour of every day.

Permalink Reply by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 15, 2011 at 11:57pm

I'm so sorry for your loss Monique and its fresh....I do understand how you feel, losing my mom last December....its been 7 months but feels like just yesterday....I also remember right before she died and all, and the hurt is still hard....I am coping better than I did though....I feel for you and we are here

Permalink Reply by Tracey Manders on July 14, 2011 at 1:32pm

My Mom was too my best friend. We talked every day on the phone, or in person. She filled my life with great advice, helped me to become a strong, independent woman, with enough love in my heart for others. Her hugs always made my heart whole. I lost her 6 years ago from complications with Lupus. I mourn for her all the time, and wish she was here.I came to this community to hopefully find some peace, and comfort with others just like me. Losing your best friend is like losing a piece of yourself. If there is ever a time you feel alone, just try to remember you're not. We ALL here feel it too!
PEACE.. <3

Permalink Reply by Rachel Lynn Schuler on July 14, 2011 at 4:10pm

im so sorry for your loss Tracey, its so hard....my mom also was my rock, she gave me advice, she loved me so much....its very hard....i miss her dearly, wish she was still here, but she is, i know that....watching over me....i miss talking to her every day....all our wonderful conversations about nothing, or about great things....

Permalink Reply by K.T on July 31, 2011 at 6:34pm

Hi  guys,

All your messages ring so true to my ears.

I'm only 20, my mum passed away 3 months ago, she was only 52.

It all seems so unfair. I still need her so so much. My best friend, i could talk to her about anything and ask her advice and she would always be there for me. She's the only person that I assumed would love me unconditionally "forever" and now she's gone so soon from my life :'(

She was ill for years but no one ever took her seriously, always said she was just depressed, then in January she was finally diagnosed with cancer, but it was too late, it was already spread everywhere. After 4 traumatic months and a stroke later, she was partially paralysed and couldn't speak and then finally died in my arms in April, 3 days after my 20th birthday.

It still doesn't seem real, I can't believe it. I lie awake at night crying, picturing my mum in her final days, so weak and so ill, looking so unlike herself. Where did my beautiful, strong mother go? my rock and my strength :'(

I just don't know what to do anymore :'(

Permalink Reply by Laura Krause on August 2, 2011 at 12:11am

Im so sorry for your loss. My mom n I were best friends. she too was always there for me. and also loved me unconditionally. Whenever I start to feel really sad n upset I force myself to bring up a happy memory of mom n me or mom n one of my kids and I try to keep that good feeling. doesnt always work but Im gonna keep tryin it. Hang in there. Im here if you wanna talk about your mom./ Laura

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