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Permalink Reply by Johnny DAnte B. on September 9, 2012 at 10:41pm

aShley, it is so hard to explain , but this time will be very difficult and many people will not understand how you are feeling .I know because I have been through it and still am going through it. I know how hard it can be . At times it seems like you are all alone and you feel lonely in your hurt . But do not get discouraged . I have been through it , sometimes people are there for good times, but do not want to or can,t reach out during those sad times. I hope to near from you, a good man with a caring heart, Johnny b.

Permalink Reply by Jennifer Blackwood on September 10, 2012 at 12:37am

Ashley, I'm going on eight months, and I feel worse now then I did when it happened. I guess because now, it's finally sunk in that she's NOT coming back! I'm 22, will be 23 in October, and the only active relationship I have right now, is with my therapist and that's it! I've totally isolated myself from the world, it seems! You are definitely not the only one going through something terrible like this, we are all here for you and totally understand how painful this is!:'( Inbox me if you ever need to vent!!:)

Permalink Reply by Jayne on September 22, 2012 at 10:36pm

Ashley, I am so sorry for your loss. I too just lost my mom in July. I have been heartbroken and so so sad. she is and always will be my best friend. I really can't believe that she is no longer here to talk to me and just listen to me. I have a family but feel awfully alone,write to me if you need to talk, Jayne.

Permalink Reply by joni miller on September 23, 2012 at 7:20pm

Hi-

I  just wanted to express my condolences and to say I too lost my mom on August 9th. It was very sudden. I have always been very close to my mom and for the last ten years she had lived with me. I know what your going through I am 43 years old and  I really dont think age is a factor,  I think it is just  the relationship you have lost on a physical level.  I can completely understand where you are as I am on the same road.  I have started  bereavement classes and hope it helps. I feel very lonely without my mom.