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Comment by christianlee on February 23, 2012 at 10:59am

Thinking of you Marie..

Comment by christianlee on February 23, 2012 at 10:58am

Thinking of you Marie.

Comment by marie on February 23, 2012 at 7:50am

My mom told us we could all come and get some of my dad's ashes. It hurts so bad. As my sister said, "I thought we were stronger than this." I know what I want to do with his ashes, but it just hurts so bad.

Comment by marie on February 20, 2012 at 8:12pm

I was asked to give my "testimony" tonight at church. I asked my dad to be with me as I spoke. I feel like he was. I still miss him sooooooo much!!!

Comment by christianlee on February 20, 2012 at 8:01pm

Missing my dad too. After my dad passed....I was listening. To t.v. and swear I heard my dad say...I will miss you very much. And I believe that it was him with my whole heart as I didn't get to tell him goodbye.

Comment by Storyas Fawnfeather on February 20, 2012 at 7:43pm

Andrea, I haven't had that happen since my dad died, but when he was in a comatose state in the last months of his life, I was sitting outside his hospital room while the nurses worked on him, and I heard his voice as clear as if he were sitting next to me say my name.  I texted my friend, because it scared me.  I thought it was an omen that he was going to die that moment, but my friend said that it meant we were both on the same wavelength because we were so close.  I think he was right.  So many spiritual things happened while he was dying and after he died.  They still happen, but not as often as they first did.

Comment by Andrea Clark on February 20, 2012 at 6:58pm

Today as I was having lunch at a restaurant with my family, I suddenly heard my dad's voice as if he were standing right next to me. He just made an observation about something very ordinary - but it made me realize how much I miss him just for conversation. I always appreciated his advice, and his optimism when I needed to talk to him about big decisions, but I really really miss just having a normal conversation with him. Sure miss my dad today.

Comment by christianlee on February 5, 2012 at 4:57pm

Blessings to all of us. I know my Dad is still with me.

Comment by christianlee on February 5, 2012 at 4:55pm

Oh Andrea...thank you for your thoughtful reply....it sure makes me feel like I am not Aline in this struggle to accept life without dad....I sure miss him so. Thanks again.

Comment by Andrea Clark on February 5, 2012 at 4:50pm

I haven't been here in a while - just read some of your comments today. @christianlee: I think it is part of the intense grieving stage to be forgetful. I know it has been a constant for me since my dad passed away in August. Some days I feel like I am losing my mind completely. People ask me things, and mention something they told me, and I can't even remember having the conversation at all. I have to make myself a lot of lists, and write down even the smallest things just so I can function at work. I don't know how long this lasts - hopefully it will get better soon. 

@Elke: I am sure our loved ones would not want us to grieve like we are. I can almost hear my dad telling me to get a grip and move on with my life. I'm not there yet, though. 

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