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Comment by Denise Frappollo on April 26, 2013 at 7:25pm

Casandra will keep your husband in my thoughts.  It will be a year soon for me since my Dad passed.  I feel just the way you do, and I know Dad is probably making sure I stay somewhat grounded, cause we are going through some really tough financial issues. Dad would always listen and tell me it will get better.  

I think what your husband did was wonderful, I talked my Mom into making Dad's wedding ring into a heart pendant so she could keep him with her. 

Comment by Casandra Porter on April 26, 2013 at 6:47pm

Hi all, just checking in. It's been a little over a year since my Dad passed away and I miss him so much. Especially during the hard times in life when I could use his smile or humor to help get me through it. I know he is looking down on me and my husband right now. 

Since Sept 2012 my husband has been battling his own illness. He had an invasive fungal infection in his sinuses that spread to his brain. He just got out of surgery yesterday for a biopsy they've done to see if it has spread further into his brain. 

It's been tough. I've been taking care of him alone and it's always been my Dad right there with me through all the waiting in the past when I've had to deal with other issues my husband's had and hospitalizations. 

But I know he is looking down on us and protecting us as best he can from where he is now. 

I've had a lot of hardship with first losing my father and then in the same year my husband getting sick but I'm fighting through it, staying positive and keeping things together as best I can. Even though, I feel I've been running so much that even a year later, I still haven't really had the time to properly grieve the loss of my Dad. 

When we were married, my Dad let me have is wedding band (he and my mother had separated by this time) for my husband's ring. For Christmas, my husband had the ring sized and engraved so I could wear it and it says, "I'm always with you, Cookie." That's what my family calls me. So, every time I've just having a rough day, I look down at that ring and it reminds me of how blessed I am to have such a thoughtful and wonderful husband but that my dad is still watching over me and it makes me feel much better. Even though sometimes it will also make me cry. 

Just wishing my husband's results come back good so we can finally get him healthy and move past all the craziness the past year. 

Comment by dream moon JO B on April 25, 2013 at 3:55pm

i no my mum misss him so mush coz april 14 woz th rwedn anversy 40nyrs

Comment by dream moon JO B on April 25, 2013 at 3:48pm

me 2 miss my dadio to i no it will ner stop hurtn i feal lik a litl girl of 6 cryng for him still

Comment by Stephanie Wilson on April 25, 2013 at 3:37pm

Days are getting better but I still miss my dad so much. I am 40 years old but he will always be daddy to me. I know he is watching over me. I love you daddy I miss you so much.

Comment by dream moon JO B on April 24, 2013 at 4:14pm

Comment by dream moon JO B on April 16, 2013 at 4:05pm

dad i luv u wish u wear still hear i miss yore silly songs yore silllly litl danse u use to do

Comment by dream moon JO B on April 16, 2013 at 4:04pm

Comment by dream moon JO B on April 11, 2013 at 4:08pm

to dad wish u wear still hear i hop u lik my foto i got it least thr wont be aby spelling mistaks on it 

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on April 8, 2013 at 8:00am

LJ,

Congratulations to both your children!  Great job.  Even though your Dad is not here physically, he is spiritually.  And he is so proud of them just like he was here.  I'm sure your Dad will let you know how to handle or who to choose for your son's graduation cap.  Just don't let you grieving overshadow your children's accomplishments.

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