I lost my mum in September. She was subject to elderly abuse by my older sister. I dont know where to start from. The anger and rage I have for my elder sister, its not funny. I try to get the vision out of my head, and how she treated my mother. The pain is excruciating that i feel, I need to join my mother. I spent a week in the crises centre. I hope this grief and anger passes.

Question: how do I accept or come to terms with the matter.

I do have evidence supported by my other siblings. The problem; no one did anything to remove my mother but discussed the HOW. My sister admitted she was hard on our parents, my dad died 9 months earlier, similiar situation.
Two days before my mother passed, I reported the incident. The system visited my mother in hospital which my Mum admitted there was a problem and chose to continue to live with my sister. The system contacted me, they respected my mums wishes.
I was with Mum when she passed, I held her in my arms. Finally I set her FREE.