Christmas is harder than I had anticipated

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Christmas is harder than I had anticipated

My Dad passed in September 2013 and my Mum January 2014.  I have been trying to prepare myself for the emotions that I may feel in the lead up to Christmas but it is more of a roller coaster than I thought it would be.  I jump from acceptance to being philosophical to utter heartbreak to tears to body shaking sobs to (and this is the way I am feeling at the moment) anger.  Not sure which direction I will take next but if you are feeling that this time of the year is rocking your world even more, feel free to share the heavy burden...

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Comment by Lost & Alone on January 24, 2015 at 2:40am

I hope that you have made it through the holiday.....

I did not think that I would my soul mate and I decided that we needed to get a new fiberoptic tree this year and when I pulled out the old one, I thought my heart was just going to stop, it was so painful that I actualy was going to die...

I am sorry to hear that you had to go through this, and Joe there is no wrong thing to say..

God Bless

Comment by dream moon JO B on December 11, 2014 at 4:43pm

frinds on hear bean grt famley feud on bth sdes of famly dnt hlp 

its bloody xmas wish wz grt wen my dad wz hear his bday on 26th we wud all drink 2 mush hav a hang ovr frm hell on 27th  but it wz wrth it 

thn my anti d it got my mum dad 2 gethr had 2 die in july so me mum r evn meset up coz of her death after my dad died in 2012 wev had los non stop on his sde or his frinds or so on 

my dads famlys big but did not thng it wud hav loss non stop 

Comment by Jenny Renn on December 11, 2014 at 4:37pm

Hi JO, You're not saying anything wrong at all.  I am sorry for your losses.  I hope that you have friends or family or both there with you to help you through the tough times.  I know that even with friends and family there, it can be very lonely.  

Comment by dream moon JO B on December 11, 2014 at 4:01pm

yea it is my dads bday is 26th dec 3rd 1 him noy hear after he died in 2012 i had multi loss non stop

sorrry if sayng any thng wong

 

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