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Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on May 16, 2013 at 3:40pm

im sory abot yore loss neil death trns evry 1s life upsidee doon ot dose i no whot u mean abot th car going don th st i  no i cnt drive but it feals lik th cars has no brakes on ltht evry thnk i lif is gong to fast 

on hear it hlps to blog or discus or join th gropes on hear 

sory abot th speling

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Permalink Reply by Michelle H on May 22, 2013 at 1:57pm

You came to the right place, Neil. There is also a group, both online and in person, called The Compassionate Friends, for parents who have lost a child of any age. I also lost my adult son suddenly. He was on a cruise with his wife and died of an apparent heart attack. I'm sorry we all have reason to be in this group, but welcome.

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Permalink Reply by Vasanthi S on May 24, 2013 at 10:32am

Neil , I know how you feel. This shouldnt ever happen to anyone, but please take comfort in the fact that you are understood. My prayers and love to you.

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Permalink Reply by Maria on July 11, 2013 at 8:08am

I am sorry for your loss. I totally understand. I loss my son a month ago. I have to talk and there's no one that is comfortable talking to me. No one wants to see me cry. So, I join groups and type. I got a counselor- free, because I can't work. I am not functional and lost a job yesterday. One suggestion to me was to drink water and walk everyday- I have a hard time leaving my house. I did it yesterday and only walked one block but it's a start. Plus, my prayers are to find a way to change the seconds of everyday that I think of my son into happy memories that give me comfort instead of making me cry. I don't ever want to let go of him and I will never forget him. I pray for the same for you.

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Permalink Reply by Michelle H on July 11, 2013 at 8:18am

Neil, I am sorry for the loss of your son. I hope you find this group helpful. Many of us have also lost adult children. It's a painful, incomprehensible thing to have happened.

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