This is Margie again.  I'm inviting any friends out there that have had losses with people and have been estranged from them for a long time.

I am doing better with the loss of my sister, but I get these waves of anger, sadness and loneliness that overcome me.

I had to stay away from my family of origin because of the abuse and rejection I would receive constantly.

I remember when we were younger in grammar school this sister Claire did not have many friends and I once in my life had a good friend.  I would invite Claire to go bike riding with us because I felt bad for her that she would stay home alone.

That changed and Claire had all the friends and I didn't, the story goes on from there, not a great one.  I want to find peace around this, I know it will take time.

I hope their are others in the same situation or others who would to offer some hope.

Margie

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