The only way to start this is at the beginning. I met my boyfriend like a blind date, we were set up. It was not the best relationship, but it was ours. At times we had some heated arguements but always got past them. So, this year on my birthday my mom and a friend of hers ( I have known her for about 4 years) came over to help me celebrate. Out of the blue the friend of my mom's tells me she can talk to spirits. I don't doubt her, but some of the things she says made me so confused and irritated her with my non stop questions. I told her my boyfriend and I did not have the best relationship and had our share of arguements. She told me that my boyfriend will not "visit" me because he has to make amends with his family first, since he did not talk to them for over 9 years. I told her that was fine. I showed her a plate my boyfriend ate on. After he died, a yellow heart appeared on it. I took it as he loves me and misses me. She says that is not him. Yellow does not mean love. I let that go. Then, she says my boyfriend is angry and does not want me to me happy and will do anything to make my life impossible. I have not had any "dealings"...things falling or moving or his touch etc. Just that yellow heart. I did hear him call my name about two months ago. She then goes on to say he will make me so miserable that I want to kill myself and that will make him happy. But to add to the confusion even more, she says "he" is staying at her apartment. Okay............why can't he visit me if he is visiting her? If she is telling the truth. I mean, granted we did not have the best years and at some point, we screamed at each to get lost. Honestly, he don't have to visit me. But I know he would never hurt me or have that much hatred for me. I have accepted his passing but now I cry more often. It still hurts and I will never get over it. But to have someone say, that if I died first, my boyfriend would not grieve for me this long. I tell her I talk to him every day, and she tells me to stop for it is making him more angry with me. I won't and will not believe it!!!

Then, to make it even worse, she says my boyfriend is so angry with me, that he will knock over shelves or throw something at me. Again, I don't belive it. I have not talked to her since about it. I avoid the subject. For when she says he "can't" visit me until he makes amends with his family, yet he will harm me??? Just does not make sense.

She told me to go to a psychic to confirm her words. I don't care. I know my boyfriend was not, is not that hateful and does not hate me.

Does any of this make sense?

 Thank you.