I miss my brother

My brother passed away less then a week ago.  It takes everything I have to go on.  Where do you go from here and are our loved ones really "In a better place" or that just something everyone says to make you feel better?  I am dying inside. 

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Permalink Reply by Anthony B. Phillips Jr. on June 12, 2012 at 1:21pm
  1. I know how you feel I lost my brother A mo. ago. So you are not alone I think that I can not go on but we have to keep busy. We will always have the mem. of them this is what I do hang on to the mem. of the good times. My name Tony and you have my email address so if you would to talk just wright I will be glad to hear from you.

 

 

Permalink Reply by Cat on June 19, 2012 at 1:48am

I know exactly how you feel.  l lost my father last week and if you look at a new discussion I started I'm getting stressed out whether a heaven/afterlife actually exists. I am a catholic and always stood by my faith but after this painful ordeal I'm starting to have doubts. At night before I go to bed I beg my father to give me a sign that he is still with me spiritually but so far I see  no signs. It scares me so much because I want to see him gain when my time comes but what if after we die there's nothing? I've been so obsessed with this that I have been looking up articles about near death experiences. Just when I find some good articles there are those who debunk it. It's actually scaring me. I want to be with my dad, my mom (when she goes) and all the other loved ones who passed. I want to know that they are fine in heaven  but I don't know. To think my dad is "gone" forever, not coming back tears my apart.

Permalink Reply by Evie Molina on December 27, 2012 at 1:48am
Hello I lost my younger brother June 23rd of this year and I too am catholic and think the same thing, I still find myself crying almost every night wondering why is he gone! What did he do so bad that deserved it. I don't want to question god because everything happens for a reason but I just can't find that reason. He was my only brother I have 2 older sisters but I just miss him so much for the holidays we were all devastated. People say time will heal all pain but I don't think so. People also say that they are in a better place and I really do want to believe it but I also want to believe that he is in a better place ALIVE just not in our universe. I have asked him plenty of times to give me a sign that he is with us and he has! That made me so happy. I also asked him to come in my dream every hear and there and he really has which makes me more happy I just get scared that I will forget his laugh and memories is it possible??
Permalink Reply by Jani on August 6, 2013 at 8:23am
I lost my order brother on 5 November 2012 ... So unfortunately I also know that feeling! Hang in there!

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