Linda Baker
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Linda Baker left a comment for Linda Baker
"Ty Joe....I just posted in one of the groups. Hopefully that will help. I'm sorry about your wife."
Jan 20, 2021
Linda Baker commented on Cathy Richardson's group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"I'm new here and so happy to find this group. I lost my Soulmate 5 weeks ago today. We knew each other for over 40 years and he was my crutch and fixed every problem for me (very codependent). Was hoping to get a pinch of his ashes for a…"
Jan 20, 2021
Linda Baker joined Cathy Richardson's group
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Being the Other Woman/Other Man

This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
Jan 20, 2021
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Joe H. left a comment for Linda Baker
"Ms. Linda - welcome to the group.  Certainly understand the feeling lost, scared, and emptiness after losing my wife.  You will see many groups [some more active than others], but everyone I have met has been supportive because all of have…"
Jan 15, 2021
Linda Baker is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Jan 14, 2021
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About Me:
64 year old co-dependent female
About my Loss:
4 weeks ago I lost my Soulmate/BFF that I knew for 40+ years. He accepted me any way I was and always helped me out of any problem I had. We were engaged at one point and intended on getting back together once herhad his kidney transplant. He was married but not happy but needed to stay there until he got his kidney. His wife had a boyfriend so she has him to lean on....I have no one because I always leaned on him. I'm lost and scared and empty without him. I'm finally not reaching for the phone to call him like we always did (anytime day or night) and I miss hearing his ringtone when he called me. Life will never be the same. I was very codependent on him and loved him so much. We don't even know yet why he died.
I've asked his wife for a pinch of his ashes for a necklace so I'd have a part of him and she got upset with me.now I'm afraid to bring it up again....it's now been 4 weeks so he should be back by now.
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At 1:18am on January 20, 2021, Linda Baker said…
Ty Joe....I just posted in one of the groups. Hopefully that will help. I'm sorry about your wife.
At 10:47am on January 15, 2021, Joe H. said…

Ms. Linda - welcome to the group.  Certainly understand the feeling lost, scared, and emptiness after losing my wife.  You will see many groups [some more active than others], but everyone I have met has been supportive because all of have suffered with loss and grieving. 

Check out the Grief Group and check out the online support group meetings on mondays if you want to share about your feelings.  I am so sorry for your loss Linda.       

 
 
 

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Gary Ruby is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
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Speed Weasel commented on Speed Weasel's blog post A Return to GriefShare and a Crisis of Identity
"GriefShare is a church based support group. They do have meetings online, but the usual format is a group of people experiencing a loss getting together weekly to watch videos (13 weeks total) about grief and loss. After the video, we talk about the…"
Oct 21
Natasha commented on Speed Weasel's blog post A Return to GriefShare and a Crisis of Identity
"is griefshare a website like this?"
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Morgan Sangrouber is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
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Addie replied to Kali's discussion It was not supposed to be like this in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Kali I’m so so sorry you are going through this. Grief is hard enough, but going through it secretly, all the while having to continue showing up for your kids, is just brutal. Perhaps your friend was careful to hide your conversations behind…"
Sep 26
Kali added a discussion to the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
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It was not supposed to be like this

In 2014 I met the most amazing man ever. We were both in our very early 20s and were looking for different things at the time. We ceased communication for roughly 6 months. During which time, he completed basic training and joined the Air Force. By the time we reconnected he was already at his first duty station.. 8 hours away.We decided we wanted to continue our relationship and proceeded to cultivate a deeply emotional connection. Regular calls and video chats, visits while he was home on…See More
Sep 26
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