Davi Burford
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  • Shreveport, LA
  • United States
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About Me:
I am married with 3 kids one of which has been taken back to heaven. I have always had a problem with anxiety now it seems to have intensified, I don't want my kids going out to the street anymore, my husband keeps telling me to stop "doing that" to them. He says I am putting them in a bubble but I just want them safe..... im lost without my husband and scared for my kids now because how do you cope with burying a brother and a dad.
About my Loss:
I lost my 16 year old son to a car accident on Dec 7th 2013. He was hit by truck while crossing the street, right in front of our house.He was born on Jan 21st 1997 he loved to play the guitar he just loved music. I don't like being at home since it does not feel like home anymore. I have 2 other beautiful kids at home and right now I just want to curl up and not have to take care of others. I just lost my husband on 4-18-15 it's been almost 2 weeks, we were married for 13 yrs and together for more like 17 that's half of my life.

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At 7:45pm on May 4, 2015, Jesse's Mom said…

I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. At times words are just so inadequate, but you and your family will be in my prayers tonight.

At 3:24pm on February 18, 2014, Theresa said…

Sorry for your loss, I know how it feels when it seems that others just don't get what you are going through. I have known people that seem to have loss someone and in a few months it was like it never happened. I am just not one of those people either.

At 3:03pm on January 9, 2014, Amy B. said…

I'm so sorry to hear about your son. I also have two other children, but they don't really fill the hole in my life left by my son. It's been 10 months since I lost my son, and I was hoping that this new year would bring relief from my grieving but it really hasn't . Yet, anyway. Many blessing to you and just know that you are not alone in your grief. 

Hugs,

Amy

At 8:11am on January 9, 2014, Dolly said…

When I read your profile information I felt my heart sqeeze in my chest.. literally... it threw me back to that instant when I realized my Brandon was really gone.. last May... like a flash I had no more baby... well he was 22 but still my baby... I remember hearing in my head that this is REAL.. and going all cold inside and my head feeling like it would explode with the screaming going on inside it

I'm so sorry you had to have this horrible thing happen to your boy... and to you .. and to all those others you love... our worlds are shattered now... nobody knows what its like except others who are having to live this nightmare too... try to be kind to yourself... try to let others' words slide off or put them on the shelf ... most people want to help but they have NO clue unless they have BEEN there...

this place is a safe place.... we all trust each other and we all have our meltdowns and we can share them without worry about being judged as not being sad enough or too sad... we are all beyond sad and we all care about each other...

nothing I can say can remotely make anything better for you... I have NO answers and am still struggling just to get through each day... but I can send you hugs and offer you my deepest sympathy.... please remember you are NOT alone...

At 5:47pm on January 8, 2014, Teresa D. said…

Davi, I'm so sorry.  We all share that deep pain that you feel. I read your words as they are my own. All I can say is we are here to share and support you in anyway we can.  

At 12:31pm on January 8, 2014, Lynn Williams said…

Davi,

I am so sorry to hear about your son.  We are here for you.  Each of us have lost a child and trying to continue on with life.  I lost my 26 year old daughter to a freak car accident four months ago.  I have moments when my mind is not focused on her absence and then I feel disloyal to her.  It is hard to balance.  All I can do is honor her life with us and do something I want to do each day.  The longing to see her is fierce and her presence will never leave me. It can't because she will always be a part of me. I am crying as I type this but the tears help me get through each day. Sending prayers and hugs to you.

Lynn 

At 11:58am on January 8, 2014, Michelle W said…
Davi,
I'm so sorry to hear about your son he is just beautiful, he reminds me of someone my son would have over.. I know this site will help. It has done wonders for me... There is no judging here , we are all in the same boat.. I losty 17 years old son in a stupid car accident 2 years ago and it feels like yesterday ...,.,hugs to you and your family.
Michelle
At 11:31am on January 8, 2014, Connie K said…

Davi

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I lost my 17 year old son in a tragic accident just over a year ago. I pray you can find some comfort here . We all understand how devastated you are feeling right now.

At 9:37am on January 8, 2014, Vasanthi S said…

Davi,

My heart is with you. I am deeply saddened by the pain of it all. May God give you the strength you need. Love.

At 9:36am on January 8, 2014, Vasanthi S said…

Davi,

My heart is with you. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through.May God give you all the strength to cope with this awful reality. Love to you. 

 
 
 

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