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Permalink Reply by Evangelina Ramos on July 22, 2011 at 12:25am

I to lost my husband suddenly 3 1/2 weeks ago. He was my everything. I know exactly how you feel. He was supposed to be with me forever. I am also angry and sad.....just breath that's all we can do to try to get through this.

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Permalink Reply by Semary Rose on July 22, 2011 at 1:52am

I suddenly lost my husband, too, a little over 7 weeks ago.  We were only together for about 5.5 years, married for 2.5.  I understand how you feel.  The only thing getting me through this is my children and the need to provide love and care for them.  I know exactly how you feel. 

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Permalink Reply by Natasha L. on July 22, 2011 at 3:26pm

 I lost my husband about a year ago. The shock of a sudden loss is something no one can prepare you for, or understand unless they've been there. 

 This site has been a huge comfort to me. I hope you'll find some peace here too. I'm sorry for your loss. The only advice I can give you is just take one day at a time. Sometimes one minute at a time. 

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Permalink Reply by Stephanie Legge on August 3, 2011 at 7:00pm

I am contemplating going to a bereavement group but, it's a Christian group and I am not sure I am in the right state of mind.  Everything I've believed in and I am the first one to say everything happens for a reason but, I want to know why!!!!! I am hurting so bad and I don't know where to put it!

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Permalink Reply by Bianca on August 5, 2011 at 6:36pm

I also just lost my fiance' a couple weeks ago, we have an 10 yr. old son and an 9 month old daughter. We spent every minute together and when we weren't together we kept in contact by phone and couldn't wait to be back together even if it was just a work shift. He also was my pot of gold, as you put it. I experienced trauma thru my childhood and experienced an awful, detramental relationship and them I met Fred, my love. He was only 27, we were planning on getting married and already working on adding more kids, we were suppost to grow old together. I have no idea what to do with myself so I'm going to lean on God because now I know it's all in his hands. I look at the world completely different now.

 

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