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Permalink Reply by Sandie Eader on November 25, 2012 at 8:00am

So sorry to both of you! We were married 36 years but the time flew so fast, it didn't seem that long. My husband scolded me for drinking all the coffee on Sunday morning (10/2/11) and made a second pot but I don't believe he ever drank any. He was bent over in such a way that he could not have been in life. It was so sudden! So, I get not being able to say I love you or goodbye. My grand daughter just mentioned that on Thanksgiving! She still feels guilty but we didn't know his time was so short. We can't look back, only forward. I know he is healthy and fishing and hunting where ever he is. I saw him with his rain fishing gear on one day (in the garage - I was so startled!) and when I looked outside, it was raining! Not fair that he is having fun while I am grieving! He didn't like to see me cry but that does not stop me from doing so. I am also glad for this site. No one understands until they have walked the path we are on. But, don't stop talking about your fiance, it helps to talk about our loved ones!

Permalink Reply by Michelle W on November 26, 2012 at 11:48am

Teresa,
I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to you ..,, my son Billy one year ago today was going with a friend to see their high school playoff game(he was a senior ) on the way home there was a blow out in the road his friend could not control the car and rolled it multiple times my son died on the highway am hour and a half from home 8 minutes after I talked to him he said he was on his way.,,, my daughter who was 18 found out on Facebook before we even knew we where driving because we thought it was a fender bender .,, never made it there they sent us home.., I never got to say goodbye or even see him again ..,,,,,that drives me Crazy not seeing him being there , saying goodbye.,,, a year today and nothing will ever be the same,,,, sorry