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Permalink Reply by Kali Grainger on August 23, 2012 at 12:45pm

Cathy,

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I did go and buy the book and read it in less than a day. It did give me some comfort.  I used to miss Chris so much when he worked on the rigs and would be gone for 10-14 days and it's been 8 1/2 weeks since I last saw him and it feels like an eternity... We didn't get enough time together... We met and knew almost instantly we wanted to spend our lives together and have a family and within a month and a half I was pregnant.  I feel so cheated and am so sad for him and our daughter as well. I have seen a psychic medium a few weeks after his death and got to speak with him and I know he is still with us but I am so lonely for him... I am so sorry for the loss of your husband.  It irritates me beyond belief that God allows horrible people to live long lives and takes good people before they grow old.

Permalink Reply by Sandy G on August 20, 2012 at 5:18pm

Hi Kali,

I am sorry for your loss. I lost my boyfriend early last year. I can only speak from my own experience. I have had a couple of readings from mediums (a real one will not ask you a lot of questions about the person, but tell you what they "see" and ask you to verify). I did not say anything except that I wanted to connect with Ken. I knew right away by what she said it was him. And in the middle of the reading she asked 'Did he ride a motorcycle?' and I said yes. She asked 'Did he like speed?' Again I said yes. Then she said 'He doesn't need his motorcycle or car now, he can go as fast as he wants.' That was proof for me, as Ken loved to drive very fast, especially on his motorcycle, but also in his car.

I haven't read the book mentioned by Cathy, but I have read a couple of books by James Van Praagh, and they are also very good, where those who have crossed over let their loved ones know that they are not gone, really, but in a different place, and that yes, indeed, we will see them again.

Hugs to you

Sandy

Permalink Reply by Kali Grainger on August 23, 2012 at 12:51pm

Sandy,

Thank your for your message. I saw a psychic medium a few weeks after Chris' death and I was able to speak with him and I knew it was him by the things she said. I still email her when I need to ask him something or just need some reassurance that he is still with me. I just wish I could communicate with him on my own which the psychic said I would be able to once my heart is ready for it. I hope that is true.  Chris also loved bikes and had one before we met but had a bad accident. He always said he was going to get another one but I told him no since we had a baby and I was afraid he would get hurt or killed riding one... I never expected him to die at work...  All I want is to be with him and it seems so far away until that can be a reality again.