As my love's one year anniversary approaches, I am trying to think of ways to honor him and celebrate his life (short of having a statue built in the park).  I feel most angry that his larger than life force is no longer a part of our world; how does it keep turning?  How come no one talks about him?  I wonder what he is doing. 

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Yes....... .some days I feel the same. We sure don't want to forget them. And it hurts too when no one brings their name up anymore. Sure missing dad this weekend. Its a time for renewal and rebirth. Still our heart aches as my dad now lives in heaven..and is in no more pain. I miss and love you dad.

That's a great idea, thanks!  I'll pick one out that night and look for it every year. 

That's what I meant; on the anniversary of his death, I will make his favorite dinner and pick out his star and throw some ashes skyward, have a little toast and that way, that star should be there every year!

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