My boyfriend and I managed a hotel, now that he has passed away the owners, have fired me. So along with me grief over his traumatic loss, which I was there to personal witness his death by robberies, I also have to deal with no job. Just how much can I handle?

 

I am just so tired!!

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Comment by Emily Elizee on September 9, 2011 at 7:47am
Thank you Anna, I had begun to feel well again from the shock of the death of my boyfriend, just to be thrown back into this whirlwind, with no job!!! I am not eating again, no appetite, not sleeping properly, and have no interest  in any work right now!!!Life is a BITCH!! But I know I have to keep busy or else I will be sucked into depression!! I am so skeptical now, I have been asking, what next could go wrong?
Comment by anna l. on September 9, 2011 at 4:26am
Emily that is so not right!  I am outraged on your behalf.  There is no way for me to imagine what you are going through on top of the fact the person you loved was taken away so violently.  It is a lot to deal with.I hope things settle down and start working out better for you from now on.
Comment by Emily Elizee on September 6, 2011 at 1:26pm
Thank you Amanda for the support!!! That's all I am doing is taking deep breaths.
Comment by Amanda Ab on September 6, 2011 at 1:22pm
Emily, I am so sorry to hear about your job. And hope you find one soon. Take a deep breath and take one minute, day, at a time. I am here for you.

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