Many of us wonder if there will ever be PEACE. It does depend upon PEACE is mentally a real possibility. Meaning, you can´t achive what you don´t believe you DESERVE. As SOULS, we don´t come to this existence in pairs, and there is a reason people walk in and out our lives in one way or another, and that is because they are no longer NEEDED, and most likely it´s not for us to decide. It´s contemplation of what is and was that will lead to this very valuable conclusion. Creating to the soul a MENTAL SPACE is fundamentally saying I´M ENOUGH to HEAL MYSELF, and I can create the ROON IN MY MIND where I feel perfectly fine...body and mind. Thus giving the SPIRITUAL existence a place to BE. Why haven´t we learn to create this, although a lot of meditation methods lead to the construction of that? Well, because we were born and raised and then live in a society full of people, and yet we ewere not quite encouraged to fill the voids in our existence with OURSELVES only as the master minds of our lives. We rent, delegate, surrender, and hope that whoever walks in make good use of the SPACE they make and occupy in our MENTAL SPACE. If I said the illusion looks so much better than reality, would you believe? Because the mental space needs to be properly fed and occupied to lead to a healthy life. Because all cascades down form that PLACE. Thoughts, words, feelings, and in time they materialize. Tus if there is people permeating and adding NOISE to that image, there is no PEACE in the construct. Basically if we spend kicking people out or allowing people to jump in there, we cannot give it the MEANING and ATTENTION that this place needs and won´t feed the positive INPUT. There will be more like an appartment run down instead of the most wonderful house in the midst of the most beautiful forest because that won´t be possible to conceive. There is a brick by brick construction of that MENTAL SPACE. We imagine this place, colors, textures, and go filling this VISION with a richness in details which just makes sense to our INNER PEACE state of MIND. It´s a place we walk in and out while meditating, we allow more and more details and that place is where we feel SOLITUDE in all it´s RICHNESS. We fill with people that should be there, animals and whatever pressence may make us feel good. And we PAUSE at that moment of CONTENTMENT and there we find the recharge to our energy of life. When I could use more of my back, I used to go for hundreds of kilometers hikes to get that cleansing feeling from all the noise of this world and thus renew the purpose to my existence. However with the years in bed prior to the surgeries and gradually getting mobility back, I had to resort to creating this MAGICAL PLACE for RECHARGE. ANd thus the MENTAL SPACE WAS CREATED after so many meditation methods and books about healing and phsychology books I read since my 17 years of age up to my current age, 45. Added to that is my allegy to medication, either phsyquiatric or pain meds which made me search into what ways I could deal with what to most is UMBERABLE. Years of night and day being exact the same, years of searching treatments while focusing on the one hour daily walks to mantain muscles active to the time the back was fixed I could walk again. And that in turn caused more pain and sleepless nights. I remember using somewhat around 4 hours a day to compile scientific literature as chief editor with NY, and the rest of the day was either waiting for pain to subside some, or to relax the body with music and meditation. That was all available. I had been by them in over 400 drs in 2 countries and a few states and much against my wish, I had to remove myself from the very proactive role in which I had 3500 employees and worked even sick for a while. In all that though, I believe I WAS ABLE TO GROUND MYSELF to resist the temptations of just GIVING UP ON LIFE. There is nothing less useful than missunderstanding GOD´s purpose just because we have selfish ways to BELIEVE in what we PERCEIVE to deserve. There is little FAITH in life from that stand point we have seen it all and know where all should go. There is a way richer life in context of trusting GOD and his purpose with our lives regardless what we KNOW THIS FAR form the little tine WINDOW we choose to see life from. It´s even more illusive to think we know why people were in and out of our lives and that we had much of a CHOICE. There is much more we would know going back to the creator to have a chat about this existence and see that ALL we have been through was nothing ore than the purpose of life, LEARN and EVOLVE. And in learning to CREATE A MENTAL SPACE, faith is right at the door where that is a possible means to exist regardless of existence in the material realm. Basically if the mind can live in that space we create, there is ANOTHER DIMENSION to LIFE that is not available until we can feel completely satisfied in that place that in the material world, don´t exactly exist but may most of it eventually MATERIALIZE. Depends how often we search around and recognize the aspects of this mental space which is later a VISION that may get close enough to WHAT WE NEED from this world. May be part, or fully what we want, or less. But each little aspect materializing lead to an imense GRATITUDE. That´s the time we know we are ENERGY FLOW, and little of any of everything we are able to SEE and CONVICE ourselves from the material world perspective. Basically when that energy meets the material world it´s as if a prayer more porful than ever meets COMPLETION. We know we are on teh right tracks to make LIFE AROUND what it should ALWAYS HAVE BEEN, a place to rest in CONTENTMENT and ApPRECIATION OF LIFE IN ITSELF. Being just happy to be alive. No attachments, this vision may change and goals and all as well. But generally speaking tends to grow in details as we materialize parts of that. In creating a MENTAL SPACE, there is no room for ANYTHING that is counter productive to feel good about being in the living. From every VISIT there we know EXACTLY what and who should remain and what should go. We have talks to our HIGHER SELF and virtually anything that can contribute to learning about this life and WHAT WE ARE HERE. You´d be surprised how much this life is about the very basics, JUST TO BE AND LET BE and shaping the world around us with OUR OWN SELVES and from and to our ENERGY SOURCE, the energy of LIFE. Once we built this MENTAL SPACE, we will never surrender to loss or to the many things around us, as we will visit more often that space and make the significant recharge we ever need to GET GOING and MOVING oN regardless of what others say or d, or what was served in our plates this far. SUFFERING has a purpose too, by connecting to the soul. Illness, losses and deaths are brief encounters or pre meetings with the finitude of OUR OWN LIVES, from which we can learn exactly right about the PURPOSE OF OUR OWN LIVES by pressing the button forward and back, almost as a AFTER DEATH EXPERIENCE, which would be down that same alley further. MENTAL SPACE is necessary too to mantain MENTALLY SANE. When all around is shaken and upside down and routine and the life we knew crashed....we will KNOW there is a difference...between the END OF LIFE and the ENDO OF LIFE AS WE KNEW. THere is way more to learn... if you let the past be just THAT.