Tuesday would have been my husband's birthday. Tomorrow is my birthday. But these dates don't matter anymore because he is gone and I am alone. How do I go on without my soulmate to celebrate these days with? We were together for 30 years. How does a person get beyond this aching heart? I just want him, with all of his faults, back with me. He left me on Christmas Eve 2011, how dare he? Now I have to face all of the trials of life alone. I don't know if I can do it!

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Comment by Sandy Christian on February 4, 2012 at 1:38pm

Thank you Bob for sharing this with me. I do so appreciate it! I believe in life after death and I told him when he was sick that I was jealous because he was going to get there before me. It's just hard to remember that when we are the one's left here. I miss him so much, but I don't wish him back because I know he is in a good place and just waiting for me. I had a similar experience from my dad after he passed in 1995. He just told me that everything was/would be ok. Please keep up your correspondence, I need to keep hearing what you are saying so I don't get lost in my own loneliness!

Comment by Bob Naples on February 3, 2012 at 11:55pm

I just read your message.listen to me,your feelings are very normal,and yes,I suffered the loss of my mom,and I didn't think i would either.Then on 12/.26,/2006,I had an after death visitation from mom.Her message is to tell every one,that there's a life after this one,and now it's been confirmed,using scientific method!!.!So keep going,it does get better.But make sure when you mourn,just remember,she's still alive,and she is in a very    beautiful place,and they are waiting for us to celebrate our  reunion!!!So if you feel sad,depressed,that's ok,We mourn because we are selfish,Once again,they are very happy there,so when you grieve,please grieve just for the physical loss!!!

p.s.How do I know all of this,because,the following day, after her appearance ,I had a near death experience!I f you need to talk,feel free to e-mail me!

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