Sandy Christian
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About my Loss:
I lost my husband of 30 years on 12/24/11 to brain cancer. It was fast, one month he was fine and two months later he was gone. I just don't know how to get through these lonely days when I keep hearing his voice and all I want to day is stay in bed and hold his picture. He was my soulmate, my best friend and I have no idea how to go on without him.

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Tuesday would have been my husband's birthday. Tomorrow is my birthday. But these dates don't matter anymore because he is gone and I am alone. How do I go on without my soulmate to celebrate these days with? We were together for 30 years. How does a person get beyond this aching heart? I just want him, with all of his faults, back with me. He left me on Christmas Eve 2011, how dare he? Now I have to face all of the trials of life alone. I don't know if I can do it!

Posted on February 2, 2012 at 7:42pm — 2 Comments

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At 7:56pm on February 15, 2012, Lisa S. gave Sandy Christian a gift
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hang in there sandy:)
At 7:55pm on February 15, 2012, Lisa S. said…

yeah,i think when people kill themselves they are so overcome with their own pain/despair that they are not able to think much of the devistation it will do to the people that do really care.it is definately something that the people left behind will never get over.and wondering what they could have done to help the victim.i think it is normal for alot of people,especially sensitive people to contemplate suicide.please reach out if u ever get close to doing it.i wont judge u nomatter what u say.we need u here on earth,and i kno there are still good things ahead for you.even if its just a nice day in the sun,a cup of tea,or a walk in the park.hope u r feeling ok.take care.~hugs~

At 4:40pm on February 8, 2012, Lisa S. said…

thankyou,it has helped me alot finding a place where i can talk about the loss without scaring people off.i'm so sorry about your husband.~hugs~

 
 
 

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