irwin Dresner
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About Me:
I am a Korea War Veteran. I was an engineering manager, I keep myself busy writting songs and poems.
About my Loss:
My wife passed away Oct. 5, 2009. I cannot shake off my intence fellings of grief and depression. My family lives far away and have not visit me since the funeral.
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THEY DO NOT CARE

DO THEY NOT CARE?

  • Posted by Irwin Dresner  on October 2, 2012 at 9:51am
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This Friday it will be 3 years since my wife passed away. In that 3 years my daughters came to visit me 2 times. I live in NEW YORK they live in Florida. A month ago my older daughter flew to Boston…

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Posted on October 2, 2012 at 10:16am — 4 Comments

NEVER THIS BAD

HI EVERYONE,  I MY ENTIRE LIFE I HAVE NEVER HAD DEPRESSION OR GRIEF THIS SEVERE. I TRULY DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO.   IN OCTOBER IT WILL BE 3 YEARS SINCE MY WIFE PASSED AWAY.   I BEEN ALONE EVER SINCE.   MY CHILDREN LIVE IN OTHER STATES AND EVEN THOUGH I CALL AND LEAVE MESSAGES THEY DO NOT CALL BACK. THE LONLINESS IS KILLING ME.   I AM A COMBAT VETERAN IN HIS 80'S WHO SUFFERED FROM DEPRESSION MOST OF HIS LIFE AND NOW HAS…

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Posted on July 19, 2012 at 11:44am — 2 Comments

HI EVERYONE

I HOPE THAT EVERYONE IS DOING GOOD.  ITS GETTING TO ROUGH IN MY DOING EVERYTHING BY MYSELF.   MY CHILDREN SOMETIMES DO NOT CALL ME FOR A WEEK.   WITHOUT MY WIFE ITS BECOMING VERY HARD TO HANDLE.  WRITING NEW POEMS IS HELPING ME SOMEWHAT BUT MY DEEP DEPRESSION IS GETTING THE BETTER OF ME.   I TRULY NEED SOMEONE TO HOLD.  I THINK OF MY WIFE ALL DAY.   HAVE A GREAT WEEK EVERYONE.

LOVE TO ALL IRWIN

Posted on March 14, 2012 at 6:55pm — 1 Comment

NEVER ENDING GRIEF

IT IS OVER 2 YEARS SINCE MY WIFE DIED.   THE GRIEF THAT I WAS SUFFERING HAS ONLY GROWN WORSE. MY CHILDREN WHO LIVE IN OTHER STATES HARDLY CALL ME.   I SPEND THE DAYS WRITTING POEMS ABOUT MY WIFE.  TODAY I SENT 4 POEMS INTO THE COPYRIGHT OFFICE.   I AM A VETERAN AND IT WAS EASIER IN COMBAT THEN GO THRU EACH DAY IN MY DEEP GRIEF.   I WENT FOR HELP BUT NOTHING HAD HELP ME IN ANYWAY.    THE DAYS COME AND THE DAYS GO BUT MY GRIEF CONTINUES TO GROW.   THANKS FOR READING.   HAVE A GOOD WEEK.     …

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Posted on March 5, 2012 at 8:13pm — 3 Comments

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At 12:15am on November 25, 2012, MIchael A Ballard said…
Hi Irwin
Hope you are doing well
At 4:49pm on October 2, 2012, anna l. said…

Thank you for adding me as a friend Irwin.  Im sorry we both have reason to be on such a site as this, but at least it is here when we need it right?  Hope you are having as ok a day as possible.

At 4:45pm on September 7, 2012, Kandi Broussard said…

Dear Mr. Dresner,  I am so very sorry for your loss and especially your pain.  I have not had the horrible experience of losing my spouse, however, I have sufferede 2 incredibly difficult losses.  My dad died from cancer and 10 months later my mom was brutally murdered in her home.  It is incredibly difficult to cope with the greif, trauma, anxiety, and depression that come with a loved ones death.  I understand that you don't hear from your children as often as you should and that just breaks my heart.  Please feel free to talk to me anytime you would like.  Just send me a message and I will answer as quickly as I can.                          Sincerely, Kandi

At 9:03pm on April 8, 2012, Kiley said…

We all have those days that we can not conquer the depression but you are doing what any of else can do and find little things that makes a moment in the day worth it.

 

At 4:55pm on April 8, 2012, Kiley said…

aww Irwin, I'm sorry for your pain death seem to bring the worst out of ppl sometimes. Do they do marathron's for you power walking? it may be something for you to work towards.

At 11:30am on April 8, 2012, Kiley said…

hope your easter is full of sunshine.

 

At 12:23pm on April 7, 2012, Kiley said…

Okay, I will check the site out. I bet they are great!

At 1:05am on April 7, 2012, Kiley said…

Thanks for the sweet comment. I wish I was better with words... Lyrics are some of my favorite things in this world. Have you post any of your poems? I would love to  be able to read some. You family probably misses you as much as you miss them have you thought of making a trip to see them? I know that the greif will still be there but some time we need a change to remember who we still are.

 
 
 

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