Kristina
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Repercussions

My father died fifteen years ago, when I was five. Recently I've missed him terribly and have been angry. It's even affecting my relationship with my boyfriend. Has anyone else felt like they never…Continue

Started Jul 5, 2011

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About Me:
I'm a 20 year old undergraduate student in Minnesota. I lost my father many years ago, but doubt that I've overcome it. I'm not looking for pity, just someone who understands.
About my Loss:
My father passed away when I was five years old after complications from chemotherapy treatment. My memories of him are few and far between. Even though it's been fifteen years, I still feel like it's affecting me.

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At 8:43am on July 20, 2011, Sue Waxman said…
I meant nuturing not neutering...I am a veterinary technician and that was a type-o! SORRY!
At 8:42am on July 20, 2011, Sue Waxman said…

Hi Kristina,

I understand. My father left my mother with 4 daughters when I was just a little kid. His actions deeply affected every one of us for our entire lives. Your fathers death of course affects you for all of these years. It is the loss, the absence of a fathers love, neutering and guidance that you were unable to experience. Mom never got over how deeply he hurt her. Mom raised us on her own. I lost her 3 weeks ago. She was my everything. My mother died from complications of chemo as well. No one on this site gives pitty...they give understanding and friendship. I am sad for you because you hurt. You have pain and I feel it in your words. How is it affecting you?

At 10:44pm on July 6, 2011, Semary Rose said…

Hi Kristina and welcome to our support network.  Your story affected me because I lost my husband and we have a child a few months younger than you were when you lost your dad.  I worry about her getting through the loss.  I am so sorry.  I hope your few memories are good and if so, try to focus on that and understand that loss knows no boundaries and does not discriminate.  In what ways is it affecting your relationship?

 
 
 

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