Julie Messerly
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  • Cedar Falls, Iowa
  • United States
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About Me:
Wife, mother, Grandma, and now a widow.
About my Loss:
My husband was diagnosed with 3 primary forms of cancer on Feb.15, 2012 and passed away on May 6, 2012

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At 11:50pm on May 30, 2012, anna l. said…

Oh Julie, you are not supposed to feel or be anything in particular right now.  You  have had to deal with so much in a short time.  I can relate.  Im soo so very sorry for all you have been through.  I wish you didnt need this site, but Im glad you found it and us.  Please feel free to contact me if you need an understanding hand.

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Loss and Lost

I lost my Mom unexpectedly on Sept. 2, 2011--my dog on Nov. 4 and my husband on May 6. I am unsure of how I am supposed to feel right now. I go between being "fine" and unable to speak because of the tears.

Posted on May 30, 2012 at 11:44pm

 
 
 

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