Feather Midgley
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  • West Jordan, UT
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I'm 33 years old, an only child, and my parents divorced when I was 21. I'm a photographer and have just started my own business for the first time this year. I met the love of my life a year and a half ago, and have been living with him and taking care of his two younger brothers for a little over a year now.
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My father died this March. He was suppose to come over for dinner on Monday, but it was snowing and he sounded tired, and I had had a rough day so we rescheduled for Sunday. My week got busy, and the times I wanted to call him, it was too late at night and he would be asleep. Friday night I had a fight with my boyfriend, and we were going to bed mad at each other. As I was trying to sleep I thought of what if he died the next day and we hadn't made up. It made me sad and we talked and then I started bawling like crazy. He said he had never seen me cry so hard, it was like someone had really died. I had a full day shoot the next day and was still feeling off. My shoot ran late, otherwise I probably would have gone to see my dad that night. I went home to bed looking forward to seeing my dad the next day. At 2am my mom called me and told me to come to the door. I saw her and her husband there, and knew something was wrong. The first thing I asked was if Dad was ok, and she said No. The cops had found him in his house that night. They say he had been there most of the week. I was very close to my dad. He was one of my very best friends. Every since the divorce it had always been me and him having daddy daughter dates. I'm suppose to be getting married this winter, and he's not going to be there. I've been strong and plugged along everyday doing whatever I need to. Whether it's been to close out his affairs, get my business off the ground, try to keep my relationship alive, and try to be a big sister/guardian to my man's younger 17year old brother. I'm overwhelmed and feel like a piece of me is missing and desperately want to put my life back together, but don't know how.

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In 2014 I met the most amazing man ever. We were both in our very early 20s and were looking for different things at the time. We ceased communication for roughly 6 months. During which time, he completed basic training and joined the Air Force. By the time we reconnected he was already at his first duty station.. 8 hours away.We decided we wanted to continue our relationship and proceeded to cultivate a deeply emotional connection. Regular calls and video chats, visits while he was home on…See More
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