A bit about me, I'm 47, married with no children (other than the fur kind).  I live in western Massachusetts with my husband, and my older brother.  My father was diagnosed with throat cancer in May, 2013, went through radiation and chemo, but it had metastasized to his liver and lungs before it was killed off in his throat.  My dad lived with us and I was his primary care giver - he passed away on April 3, 2014.  On April 29, 2014, my mother, who lives around the corner from me, was…