Deb Schaefer
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  • Litchfield, MN
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About Me:
I am 48 years old with two children.Kelsey,21 and Mitchell, 19. I have been married for 24 years to Craig.
About my Loss:
I lost my mother on April 27th, 2010. She was my best friend for the last 20+ years. We were very close considering our differences in age etc. I was adopted when I was a year old and growing up we did not get along very well. I knew she would not live forever but was still not prepared for my loss.

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I am still stuck

Today would have been my dads 96th birthday. He died in 1978 and I have been without him for so long that it is normal. However I still remember the day even as I can't remember what his voice sounded like. My mom has been dead for 5 months now and I am so afraid I will forget the sound of her voice. I want to hanger on to it. I never tape recorded her stories like I told myself I would. I have three older brothers and a sister but its like we were never in the same family. For… Continue

Posted on October 16, 2010 at 9:47pm

I am stuck.

I was looking at my moms things today. There is so much stuff. It is a long process because as I go through her house I stop to reminise about all of our times together and each item has a story. She was ultra organized and I find myself laughing over some of her things. We would sometimes go through her drawers sorting items and get the giggles over some of the dumbest things. I sit on the corner of the couch and look at her chair where we spent so many hours napping, watching… Continue

Posted on June 24, 2010 at 7:24pm — 2 Comments

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