Chanzy
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Chanzy replied to Xavier's discussion I Lost My Mother this Year on July 1st...
"I'm so sorry for your lost .. I just lost my momma today to liver cancer and I feel lost and confused she was my everything and always will be I took care of her till her last breath she let me know that she knew me and my little brother were…"
Jul 28, 2019
Chanzy left a comment for Chanzy
"I'm so sorry for ur lost ... The end of cancer is the worst I used to hear stories on how bad it can get but when it comes to actually seeing ur loved ones go through it ..it's a whole new kinda of hurt that breaks u everyday they suffer…"
Jul 26, 2019
morgan left a comment for Chanzy
"You know what is helpful about this site?  Its when you hear that the experiences you have had are not isolated or abnormal.  I had yet to read anyone talk about how the lack of communication at the end was losing appetite, confused and…"
Jul 26, 2019
Chanzy joined Katherine Ellis's group
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Losing Someone to Cancer

This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.See More
Jul 25, 2019
Chanzy is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Jul 25, 2019

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About my Loss:
I'm about to lose my mom to liver cancer she's been battling it for about 6 years now but unfortunately there's nothing more they can do and she's been given weeks I'm lost I can't communicate with her she's lost her appetite and shes confused most of the time today broke my heart to hear her ask who we were to me and my little brother 💔

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At 5:53pm on July 26, 2019, Chanzy said…
I'm so sorry for ur lost ... The end of cancer is the worst I used to hear stories on how bad it can get but when it comes to actually seeing ur loved ones go through it ..it's a whole new kinda of hurt that breaks u everyday they suffer I'm to the point of I don't want to lose her I know I will be lost with out her but I can't watch her suffer anymore I feel guilty for feeling this way it's so hard to say goodbye I feel so angry .sad all at the same time
At 1:01pm on July 26, 2019, morgan said…

You know what is helpful about this site?  Its when you hear that the experiences you have had are not isolated or abnormal.  I had yet to read anyone talk about how the lack of communication at the end was losing appetite, confused and not recognizing what is going on around them.  I needed to hear that.  I am so sorry for your experience Chanzy but it gives me a little less guilt as to how my husbands death affected me at the end.  I am crying now as to how that all transpired but I want to thank you for sharing how the pain of death affects us all.  I beg the universe to relieve me of this ongoing trauma of missing my husband but I realize its not to be.  I am just glad to read that my feelings of pain are not unusual because of the circumstances that happened at the end.  

 
 
 

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Speed Weasel commented on Speed Weasel's blog post A Return to GriefShare and a Crisis of Identity
"GriefShare is a church based support group. They do have meetings online, but the usual format is a group of people experiencing a loss getting together weekly to watch videos (13 weeks total) about grief and loss. After the video, we talk about the…"
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Natasha commented on Speed Weasel's blog post A Return to GriefShare and a Crisis of Identity
"is griefshare a website like this?"
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Morgan Sangrouber is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
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Addie replied to Kali's discussion It was not supposed to be like this in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Kali I’m so so sorry you are going through this. Grief is hard enough, but going through it secretly, all the while having to continue showing up for your kids, is just brutal. Perhaps your friend was careful to hide your conversations behind…"
Sep 26
Kali added a discussion to the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
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It was not supposed to be like this

In 2014 I met the most amazing man ever. We were both in our very early 20s and were looking for different things at the time. We ceased communication for roughly 6 months. During which time, he completed basic training and joined the Air Force. By the time we reconnected he was already at his first duty station.. 8 hours away.We decided we wanted to continue our relationship and proceeded to cultivate a deeply emotional connection. Regular calls and video chats, visits while he was home on…See More
Sep 26
Kali joined Cathy Richardson's group
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Being the Other Woman/Other Man

This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
Sep 25
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