Slightly different twist, but, I lost my husband to lung cancer this past November...which means my 24 year old daughter and 26 year old son lost their father. I realize the differences between your situation and ours but the similarity is the grief! The missing that person. You have our sympathy and our empathy....

Hi Debbie, I just saw that you had responded to my post. I too lost my beautiful mom to cancer. My mom had Pancreatic Cancer. If you would like we could email one another. I too am a mom I have 4 children. My email is jaynelr2002@yahoo.com. I would write back to you and maybe it would help. Jayne