Barbara Santoli

Female

Lake Ariel, PA

United States

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About Me:
I am 65 years old and became a widow 3 months ago. Three months before that I retired from my job of 31 years.
About my Loss:
On August 3, 2011 my husband of 42 years died of a heart attack at home. I did cpr but could not revive him. I am feeling lost and confused and not knowing who I am anymore.

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  • Christine Sutton

    Brenda, you left a comment for me when my computer was not working. It touched me deeply and I want to thank you from all of my heart. I have missed being here and I went through some terrible times where I longed for people to reach out to. I could not leave the house on those days... the site would have helped me. Something helped me get though. But I am glad to be back. When I read your comment today, I was deeply touched. Christine

  • Rachel Lynn Schuler

    barbara your not alone i cant read either and i miss it....but i love the computer, i listen to music, exercise a little...you will be fine sweetheart....concentrating is hard....ive had a lot of people bugging me, that doesnt help

  • Brenda Ann

    Barbara,

    I just want to give you a hug.  My husband and I have just celebrated our 42nd anniversary and the history we share goes back to when we decided to get married at 5 years old.  It is obvious that you had a good man and I  am sorry that you lost him.  You had history and I find as I loose family and friends, it is the lack of history or feeling of conection that hurts me most.  Even at church, as I get older and our congregation losses those who have been faithful since we were children as pillars in the congregation, the void that is left behind seems so sad.  I am not ready to be the strong one. . .  When Dad passed away and as the months have passed, I miss his wisdom and his heart.  Please be assured of my love and that I will keep you in my prayers.

    Brenda

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