I am a wife of a Military man. I am also a mother of four and I take care of my Uncle who is going to be 68 this year and now I take care of my mom who will be 61 this year. Also my youngest baby girl is Autistic, Lanuage disorder,ADHD, and just recently she has been found to have an Anxiety disorder with Sensory disorder. That is just a little about me.
About my Loss:
In Nov.14,2012 my daddy went to the doctor because he did not feel well. My mom took him and they noted he was yellow so they sent him for an ultra sound and saw something on his liver. They sent my father for an emergency Mri on Nov.15,2012 which was his 67th birthday. He got the test done and by noon the same day they called my parents and told them they need to seem them by 3:30pm the same day.What my parents were told at that time was that they believed that my daddy had liver and lung cancer. With in a week he was hospitalized with his organs shutting down. So at this time my husband took emergency leave and we went up to Oak Harbor, Washington to help my mother with what my father needed. We arrived by MAC flight on the 1st of Dec.2012 and had my father home by the 2nd of Dec., 2012 on Hospice he was able to have one last meal and then at 2am on the 3rd of Dec. he woke up screaming in pain so my mom gave him so pain meds and by 8:50pm on the 3rd of Dec.,2012 I was having to tell my mom that my father passed away. That is a part of my story and it is one of the hardest to talk about.
Chandra G Brewer
Female
San Diego, CA
United States
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