My condolences on the loss of your brother-what a horrible way to find out your brother had died.
I have found so much comfort and support on this website since my daughter was killed in a tragic accident on Memorial Day of this year. Sharing with others can help you with your grief; we all have that common bond here.
Do you have a picture of your brother you might want to post? Whenever you are ready...
Take care. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Laura

My family is from northwest Ohio, very rural area...Paulding County. Very close to the Indiana border.