Irwin,  so sorry for your loss.    I lost my husband of 41 years, about 13 months ago. Yes,  not everyone grieves the same.  And no one can feel the pain for us.

 Jesus promised that we will  see our loved ones again.  Knowing Him gives eternal hope.

We won't be married then  but will know them.  

  Stay Cloe to your family.  They will grieve different than you, but stay close.   Talk openly with them, and comfort each other.  

  God Bless,       ellynm 

I feel the same way. Lost my wife oct 9. Cannot take another day of this pain. God, if you exist, why do you torture us?