I have just read what happened to you and your family. I am sorry to hear about your nephew and brother-in-law. I share your pain. We just lost our brother-in-law a few weeks ago and our daughter 9 yrs ago. There are no words of comfort. But it does get better with a lot of time. Right now it is so new for you. Your poor sister. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I'm so glad you found this website. It has helped me alot. Take care and God Bless.