linda misses her son

Female

Los Angeles, CA

United States

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About Me:
i'm a hard working person i'm very spritual
l loved my only child who is gone now i also have 7 animals 2 that i adopted,im now a mother who's in the state of shock,and im numb.
About my Loss:
i lost my only child my son who was in the navy at one time he was a disable vet who chose south africa to be his home he was there since 2004 and he died there april 17th 2012 not sure how or what happen not even sure,where they buried him at,he was married to an african girl who only wanted his money the next day of his death she calls me and ask can i help her and her kids come to american so they can get his benifits,but durban africa told her she need to have an dna on those kids and my son wanted a dna also but she refuses,i have not been able to say good bye to my son have no kind of service,he died in capetown and the american embassy keeps telling me thier going to send me a photo of his body and his death certificate so i can have a memorial service ,and i'm still waiting on that,it's hard to lose a child and very hard losing your only child and not having any closer whatsoever,i force myself to keep my sanity everyday,im so numb sometimes,i just want to be able to tell my child goodbye and give him a memorial service and not getting no help,i'm not sure what to do anymore i tried to contact lots of people to get my sone body back to the states no luck,i talk to my son a month before he was killed he said he was coming home,and i believe his wife and his family had something to do with his death,they kidnapped him once and he wasn't able to call me for 6mos,he finally escape and told me what happen,they wanted his code to his visacard,he went through hell there but he loved it there,and didn't want to leave the kids because it wasn't their fault what thier mother has done,this is really a very long long sad story,and so much much to tell.i'm trying my best to hang in there i really am.
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