Hello Mrs. Olson, I'm glad I did not upset you, from what I can sense you have a lot of friends and family members that loves you so much and they just don't want to see how hurt you were when Dave had move on, but each one of us go through our grief differently, how wonderful you and Dave had spent 43yrs. together and in love with each other, I have wondered what keeps a relationship to keep going with one another, I unfortunately found the love but it just did not last with my mom and dad it was at the ending part of their journey and it was revealed to me,  how wrong i was, I will not bore you with me but it helps me to be able to truly say I am sorry to them, I am still dealing with a very good friend that past, she had opened my heart, to what a friend is. thank you for communicating with me and again I pray I do not upset you, I don't know you or Dave but I would love to just hear about  you and Dave if you would like to, I have found one way of dealing with my hurt I would just talk as if they are next to me!. Thank You Mrs. Olson. I am truly willing to hear about you and Dave.

Hi Karen, yes, its been 15 months for me and it might as well be yesterday. She and I had 22 years of married life, frankly I think I would rather not be here anymore, nothing is the same, life is just empty now.

Michael UK