susan joanette wilson

Female

Morris, IL

United States

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About Me:
i am 56 gave to three sons and a daughter' two of the boys were twins. i have five grand children. Injoy reading social networking and spending time with my family.I am a caregiver by trade and really like what i do.
About my Loss:
i have lost two sons 18 months apart. My oldest son bill was crossing the street on his bicycle when he was struck by a pick up truck, that was nov.22 2009. One of my twins was killed in what they are calling freak accident less than 30 days ago. He left behind his twin and a 19 month old son.
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  • Ruth

    Susan, thank you for your comment and welcome.  I am sorry to hear of the loss of your sons.  In my sibling set, I am the only not-twin, so I understand the special concern you have for the living twin.

    We have DNA evidence as well, I pray it all lines up. People ask me if I think he will plead guilty. I snort with skepticism, no he's a career criminal, serving a life sentence behind bars would put a crimp on his "lifestyle".  Besides he's a little spit and is already probably someone's girlfriend ($1,000,000 bail bond), he'd be uncommonly lucky if he didn't end up with AIDS as well.  Maybe I led a charmed life before, not to understand how vengeful a person could be.  I have to turn that over to the Lord about 30 times a day lately, knowing that it is His.  Thank you again for the support.

    Jul 6, 2011

  • Patti Meadows

    Hi Susan.  Blessings and comfort to you.  I lost my youngest son 5 years ago in a car crash.  My heart goes out to you.  Your grief is so great, I pray God will comfort You.  I spent a lot of time being angry with God...But I am trying to look at it differently.  Instead of Jesus being my enemy, I think death angers him also.  This world is not our home, and if we just keep hanging on, we will finally one day be with all of our family.  I have two surviving sons that miss their brother, and a loving husband who misses our son as much as I do.  Have you ever read Barbara Johnson's books?  I saw her speak once, she has just recently passed away, but her books are wonderful, filled with love, loss and humor.  She too, has lost two of her sons, and she has had other struggles also.  I highly recommend them.  I am new to this site and really just now have been able to express myself about my son.  I think up until this point, I would not accept it.  Again, love and blessings to you.  Patti Meadows 

    Jul 27, 2011

  • Amanda Ab

    Hello Susan

    I came across your page. And I am real sorry about both of your looses. I cannot relate to your pain of loosing a child. My prayers are with you and your family. Wonderful pictures you have, including of your grandson. Your son lives and will always live on your grandson, he is a part of your son. I can somehow relate to your little grandson. My son too was 19 months when his Dad, my husband, passed away.

    They often say, that God will not put on us something we cant handle. Keep strong.

    Take Care,

    Amanda

    Nov 6, 2011