Stanley Ruiz

Male

Richmond Hill, NY

United States

Profile Information:

About Me:
I lived with a gay man 37 years and I cry every day..Home invaders came in the night at our vacation home shot me in my intestines and stomach
About my Loss:
HE WAS SHOT IN THE HEART AND DIED

Comment Wall:

  • dream moon JO B

    its ok to cry stanely i cry for my dad evry day i no serton 1s in the family tell me to get over it i even got told i shud of got over it the day he died i got told its easy i no its not easy i got told wen people die i shud forget abot thm but i cant coz thy r part of my life story to day i upset coz wear my dads ashs is burid som horbl person has pichet the flowers i put on 

  • Terrance Smops

    Sorry for your loss Stanley.

    You will cry for a while. I was a real mess for a week. Then a zombie for a while. There are still bits of crying here and there. For today just let it out.

  • nicole

    Stanley =sending prayers your way....it has been two years & I still cry everyday. You won't ever forget.

    For me, I have come to accept that I will always have a sorrow in my heart, and just started working on the suffering in my mind. 

  • dream moon JO B

    thnx stan 

  • dream moon JO B

    • plesed u r ok stan hpe u enjoy yore tm in forest had a bot of 1 of my wobly momnts 2 day i did i thnk its coz of evnts its cumng up it dose it 2 us
    • jo
  • dream moon JO B

    thnxs stan i no sholdr pain u no wn i fell begin of yr wear i hrt my leg sholder if i had not fell i wud not hav set it off wors thn ever evn dr saed its easy 2 fall 2 do damg 2 us 

    jst 1 of thm thngs

    jo

  • dream moon JO B

    snap stan my sholderr is killng me evn my leg i hrt ths yrts mkng me wrk funny well lmpng a bit mre pain relif hlps for a bit thn it stoppps it doze thn ths pain cms bk 

    now nxt holiday is xmas stan wish im not lkng fored 2 im not i usd 2 luv it wn my dad wz hear coz his bday wz 26th dec so we wud hav 2 selbratsons we did so we wud spnd 2 days drinking eatng 2 mush th on 27th dec we wud hav hangovrs or fealng a bit li heded 

  • Stanley Ruiz

    JO.Sorry to hear about your shoulder and leg plus the weather does not help , Christmas will be here again and we are all memories and it is hard for all of us.This will be my second Christmas without ralph and I still cry.This house is full of his memories,I try to be strong but it is not so easy.I pray a lot and do not forget the candle Christmas Day..I always remember you in my prayers.God protect you and watch over you.Do not drink too much Ok.STAN

  • dream moon JO B

    stan ths pain is bad 2 day all coz of a sily falll i had ths yr i no iv bean tld by 2 drs wish i trusttt falllls can do damge 2 us thy can

    dnt hlp wi grief pain as well on topp

  • dream moon JO B

    hi stan bean 2 dentist 2 day dont hav 2 go bk till 6th mnths im lisnon 2 80s music on absulte radio 

    hear is sm pics for u

    hp u lk thm