Mary

Female

Jeffersonville, IN

United States

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About my Loss:
I lost my mom March 21, 2012. She died just 21 days after being diagnosed with a brain tumor. She was my best friend and losing her has been devastating.

Comment Wall:

  • Jayne

    hi mary, I will be on tomorrow night so we can talk. have a good night, Jayne

    Sep 2, 2012

  • Brenda Ann

    Mary, I would like to share some some scriptures and talk about the spiritual side of all this. There are so many phylosophies and so many varied view points that it seems reasonable to me to check out what the Bible says. What do you think?

    Brenda
    mawmaw1591@gmail.com

    Sep 16, 2012

  • RUTH

    Hi Mary, Hope you are doing ok today. I still have my mother's bear also :-) Funny how little things help in small ways to comfort us. 

    Oct 17, 2012

  • joni miller

    Im sorry Mary :(  I know how you feel,   it just washed over you  sometimes,  and you are right you cant  control it,  all you can do when it happens is  put a positive thought in there  ,  and  let it pass,   it really hasnt been  that long for us,   and  I just think  its going to take a lifetime,  and  it will just get easier in time to bear it.  I wont use the word "get over"  or anything like that, because we have all  heard those things.   I  am  walking around the house  crying  and then  i am ok for an hour and then cry in the car,  etc.   I dont have the words other than to say,  I know how you are feeling.    There was  a sign posted in grief class that goes something like this :  The degree of grief you feel  when someone passes is directly proportional to the level of love you felt for them,  so in other words,  when  i knew my relationship with my mom  was so, close , on some level I always knew one day I would have my "enormous" loss,  and I do.   I think you feel the same.      Sent me a note and let me know how you are doing when you get a chance.   Ruth is out of town but will be back on Sunday. 

    Oct 20, 2012

  • RUTH

    Hi Mary aka Momma Bear...hope you doing ok and hope to catch up with you soon!

    Oct 22, 2012

  • dream moon JO B

    i no how u feal abot bdays my dads bday is boxing day we all used to go out for his bday som times for a meal 1 or 2 days later but we allways made a nite of it and hang overs the nxt day 

    Oct 30, 2012

  • Joseph G. Bartlett

    thank you for taking some time to write me to you im am truely sorry for the loss of your mom  i just hate that in order to get  some attention round here you half to rant /rave/  in genaral being a bigg pain in the butt  i'll remember about the time zones thank you joe

    Nov 2, 2012

  • Joseph G. Bartlett

    squeaky wheel ?? haha whats that about ?

    Nov 3, 2012

  • Eliza

    Thanks, Mary. Christmas was so hard. Today was hard, too. I miss her so much. Does this ever get easier?

    Jan 1, 2013

  • Elissa

    Thanks for the message Mary. It's only been a little over a month since my mom passed away. I feel like I'm feeling worse as time goes on. We do have similar stories. I don't know what type of cancer my mom had. She had cancer in her lungs and they found small lesions in her brain. This all happened in a three week period. She was fine one day and then died three weeks later. I'm still trying to wrap my head around this. I feel as if this is a terrible dream that I will hopefully wake up from. Thanks again for your post!

    May 29, 2013