Kari Hurley

Female

Great Falls, MT

United States

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About Me:
I am a mother of 3 great kids, 2 girls and 1 son. I have a beautiful grand daughter and I am married
About my Loss:
I just lose my son who was 24 on 1/26/13. He was in prison and they think it was accidental drug overdose, but will not know until the autopsy comes back. The day I got the phone call was the day a big part of me died. He was my first born and only son. I love and miss him so much and the pain is often to much to handle. I have so much guilt and questions. I am tired of people saying it will be okay because you know what it won't. My son and I were very close, we always had been. I am the one that turned him in and in my eyes sent him to his death. People say I am here if you need anything just let me know and I just want to say there is nothing you can do to help me anymore. I miss him so much and my pain is so great that I am not sure I can do this without him

Comment Wall:

  • Grace

    So sorry you have needed to join this sad club.  You are right.... things will never be the same again...... but you just breathe in and out everyday and live for the ones that need you here like your daughters.  It is going to be painful.... and if your friends have not lived this pain, it is hard for them to understand.

    We are here for you....

    Feb 14, 2013

  • Dennis C.

    Kari

    I am so saddened about the pain that you are experiencing. The loss that you have had to deal with is excruciating to say the least. There is nothing that anyone can say to ease your pain. I am sorry for that.

    But there is comfort available and hope. For example, here is just one promise about those that we have lost

    Isaiah 26:19 — “Your dead ones will live. A corpse of mine—they will rise up. Awake and cry out joyfully, YOU residents in the dust! For your dew is as the dew of mallows, and the earth itself will let even those impotent in death drop [in birth].

    True comfort (it doesn't take the pain away) comes from gaining a solid hope for the future. A purpose, and something to live for. The bible's promise of a resurrection gives us just that. But we need to know exactly what the bible teaches about this.

    Please know that these tragedies are NOT Gods doing. Death is NOT part of Gods plan.

    If there is any way that I can help, please let me know.

    DC

    Mar 2, 2013